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  1. CyrusTheGreat

    Red Pill Reading List for Women

    Are you guys aware of any books that help and encourage women find and become their feminine slef? Basically, I'm looking for either the equivalents of the rational male for women or good novels with traditional gender roles.
  2. J

    Girl calls me arrogant good or bad? rp bp

    I think I changed alot of my blue pill thinking to red pill. What I realise now after a while that I talk a lot ****y&Funny with girls. Not a good example but today me and a girl were mocking each other a bit and she said she didnt sleep well today and I said oh im so sorry for you i will cry...
  3. B

    8 yr LTR since 19 now engaged then I was red pilled...

    Like the title says Ive been in my ltr for sometime from a young age. My partner in recently yrs has become more persistent about marriage. I do care for her however, I started feeling uneasy when intimacy and ultimatums started being used for her own leverage. I caved after a long dragged out...
  4. F

    Just got dumped by a 10/10 borderline and Im ready to redpill

    Man I feel low. So some backstory first relationship was 5 years ended in her cheating and leaving with a guy from work. Second was a 16 year marriage ended in her having a affair and leaving me for a cop, third was a girl who spun plates (I was one, though the "priority") even though should...
  5. universal dawah

    How did you guys conquer your approach anxiety?

    How did you guys conquer your approach anxiety and how do you think I can conquer it
  6. A

    Starting a red pill blog

    Brothers, I'm new to the manosphere and am thinking about writing a blog (RP content). Should I be worried about which CMS to use (like Wordpress)? I was thinking about potential censorship and reaching a wider audience. Appreciate any advice/info as this is all new to me!!
  7. J

    The known "bitter taste" and the conscious Man

    A large hello to you all, First post ever here, but I have been reading threads here and there for a year now. A year then, that I have been eyed-opened. Friend of mine handed me the often quoted on this forum "The Rationale Male" by R. Tomassi. English not being my native language, I had to go...
  8. evan12

    Should we Redpillers help BlackPillers

    I was lately reading some articles from incels.ca website, and I was amazed how many of them are quick to swallow the black pill and end all their ambitions, some of them not even 18 years old . While I can agree some of their arguments are valid, but it is against life , all the life is trying...
  9. D

    Does anyone here believe pair bonding for life is possible in the current climate?

    Just curious to see what others have to say.
  10. Black Magic

    I Need an Alpha Mindset

    Hey all, first post. I'm new to Red Pill thanks to The Rational Male, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and other sources, and feel like I have a long road of recovery ahead. Backstory...been sober for a few years and almost a year ago joined another 12 step program for relationships. I have not...
  11. S

    Was I used by this girl?

    I casually dated a girl on and off for a year(I know this was dumb). She started going through rough financial times and she asked me for money. I helped her and she started ghosting and flaking on me. When I addressed she said she was depressed and wants to be alone. Eventually after me arguing...
  12. Von

    LTR/GF reporting back to me that she's being ''hit'' and he's a ''creep''

    Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...
  13. N


    let's start the tale , My dad is Asian and My mother black . ' Dark ' despite being fair at birth i am dark too - because she made me ? how by using oil and tanning me all these years , for that i had to face racism growing up in Asian society and developing an inferiority complex - that's a...
  14. Blacksheep

    Affraid of how feminism are modelling our society

    After reading The rational male, I started to observe more about people behavior on your society, and was thinking about my experiences... Does anyone feel affraid of what this can turn in the future? I see a lot of ilogically hate being created by those stupids extremist feminism ideas...
  15. darksprezzatura

    Red Pill Habits

    "Any man who reads too much and uses his own brain too little falls into lazy habits of thinking."- Albert Einstein I noticed when I created goals for myself, they immediately created anxiety within me which many times overwhelmed me. It was easy planning things, than actually following through...
  16. devilkingx2

    How has learning game (whether red pill theory or PUA tactics or anything else) helped you?

    There's been a lot of anti-game hysteria here lately so i figured that it would be a great time to make a thread about the other side of the coin, So guys, lets talk about how game could've helped you in the past, or has actually helped you get a girl. Tell some stories of times when it wasn't...
  17. N

    Opinions on the Red Pill?

    I’ve been reading some stuff over there. I know lots of people say it’s toxic, but it seems spot on to me. Similar to a lot of the stuff the DJ Bible talks about. It says what people in the real world say, just with fancier wording. What are you all’s thoughts on it? And wanna give me some good...
  18. P

    Society's attack on the Alpha.

    I was recently following up on popular scandals on the internet when I ran into several articles on R. Kelly and how scandals seen to follow him but this has never deterred him from achieving tremendous success in what he does. What caught my attention was how a beta-male-feminist by the names...
  19. N

    What to Do about feeling Overwhelmed?

    Short and to the point, I’ve decided to take the red pill in pretty much every aspect of my life, this website included. I feel like my eyes are opened and I’m really happy that I know the truth of everything from women to how people act and school, but all this knowledge is sometimes...
  20. darksprezzatura


    "Very few men are wise by their own counsel or learned by their own teachings, for he that was only taught by himself had a fool for a master" - Ben Johnson Social proof in simple terms is a man's social worth, that men follow him and women like him. In short, it means being a leader of men...