ltr

We all know women have a checklist they run through when evaluating for LTR/exclusivity. The list tends to get longer with more mileage and age. The chief items on her list are going to be LMS, everything else is cherry on top. I do my best to evaluate behavior and be aware of red flags early...

One of the tough lessons I had to learn last year and this year again is in the importance of screening a woman who is a heavy social media user. Ex: Girl 1 I let myself get burned by making an AW a main plate too early after hooking up for 2-3 months last year. First red flag was this woman...

I bet we all know girls with Daddy Issues. Let's manage / control the situation if it arise The Dad might be ''gone'' (absent - uninterested - inactive - dead) or might be present and active. The Dad might be a strong father or a weak father.... the father might have anger issue / violent...

Hey guys, so it seems i will be getting in the Moving In together phase. Wanted to make a thread of how to keep frame in these cases and what should I keep in mind/do. First time living together

Here's a thread to make a list of what you could do or give as a gift to your LTR/GF. I thought it would be fun to have a thread listing all possible ideas. (Give me and you guys ideas). My context: Almost 1 year of dating, birthday in May (taurus sign). We all know it depends on the girl...

The question is the thread title. I got that question from each of my LTR. 3 LTR, 3 different girl (in all aspect), same question, Same answer: Me: Why you are dating me? Her: Cause you know how to fight Or Her: Von, I am dating you cause you know how to fight -- So what you think they...

(TL;DR at the bottom) So lets look at our first important example: tenacity starts a thread about girls wanting money from him all the time and how it sucks, some would say "AWALT, they're looking to drain your resources and find out what you can do to serve their needs" others would say "the...

So for starters, my mom's nuts. She has symptoms of borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder and paranoid schizophrenia. So I've always kind of been tuned to crazy women because I grew up in that environment and learned to put up with it. Over the years I've fallen...

Hey, Me:29 Girlfriend: 24, HB8 Relationship for 3 years, 2 years living together So my girlfriend is generally seen as a "good girl", the one you would want to introduce to your mom, extremely beautiful, wants kid&house&marriage (I want kids, house maybe when its a good financial decision...

Is it okay to sleep with a cheating girlfriend of another guy when you know it? When they are in an LTR?

So I've started reading, or rather listening to, The Rational Male. Man, has it flipped my world upside-down. I consider myself a pretty logical guy, so I was and am able to open my mind to the ideas that are being set forth in the book and seeing how many things that I have been wrong about for...

Hi guys, it's been a while since I've been last here. Things have probably changed but women did not :D Just wanted to share my recent story with you. Maybe other people can take it as advice because I really hoped to find something like this a few days ago. So to shorten the intro I'll just...

Considering you want a LTR with a woman, when you start to look for red flags and you screen her etc, and then at some point you realise she's been a who-re...Would you still consider a long term relationship with her? I mean, nowadays all women have had ONS, they've fvcked some dude raw style...

I don't necessarily disagree, maybe I'm taking it out of context, but which category do I fall in then? I know some men do relationships, and some men will spin plates until they die. I agree, and understand both choices. I've done both. Whatever works for you, works in my opinion. I'm in a...

Need some opinions on how to handle this. Yesterday my girlfriend who I live with said she would send me some pictures to 'brighten up my day at work'. It got to 2pm when she was due to go to work and she hadn't sent them. I get a message an hour later reading 'I forgot to send those pictures...

First off, I've been coming to this site since I was about 21 years of age... I am now 33 and been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now. She's 2 and half years older then me (35 now) and she's very smart, mature, fun, down for whatever most of the time and we have the same views in...

Hey guys, this is somewhat a special problem. Iam not a native speaker but iam posting here because i think my wife could find threads in my language. Iam 38, wifey 34, we are married for 12 years ( 16 years together ) and have kids 8 and 6. We had an off-/on open relationship ( the...

Hey, Iam 28 and my girlfriend is 22 and we are living together and in a relationship for 18 month. Iam no native speaker so pardon my english ;) There is one thing that bothers me a lot to be honest. I have this guy in my social circle that i basically can't avoid. He's an douchbag and jerk...

I’ve been in a LTR for about a year now. My girlfriend is madly in love, and I’m starting to catch some feelings too. She’s about 12 years younger than me (I’m 34 and she’s 22). We met at work, initially becoming friends. We eventually hooked up about a month after we first met, after a...

Hey, iam 28 and my girlfriend of 18 month is 22 and we are living together. Iam no native speaker btw ;) My girlfriend is a kind person. She doesn't smoke, no tattoos. Not a party-queen either. She's very hot and the sex is great. She invested ALOT into the relationship. When i had to move out...