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Sleeping with another man's LTR

Paul Smith

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Is it okay to sleep with a cheating girlfriend of another guy when you know it? When they are in an LTR?
 

Red Legg

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Of course it's ok...If there is no ring on it then full speed ahead,if it has a ring proceed with caution just don't get fvckin shot...;)
 

sosousage

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the worst thing you can get is getting killed/hurt by her LTR male. too bad these males never understand that they should not chase after the guy who their girl cheated them with, but they just should find another girl
 

marmel75

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Free game. She is obviously planning on leaving him soon, thats typically how it works...she leaves once she has the best dude in place.
 

djthiago1

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Everytime i've heard this, without fail, it's been a man projecting his weak ltr sexual strategy.

Sexual marketplace socialism. Guys looking to unionise. Those who break the white-knight "code" being scabs that cross the picket.

Sheep keeping sheep in a line.

This is why asking the question itself is daft. Do whatever (or whomever) the fvck you want to do.

It's a free world/market/whatever.
Nah, i simply have complete disgust for the modern world.

I dig classy girls with low partner counts. I even get ED when i try doing slutty girls, doesn't work for me.
 

lizardking82

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I would not suggest it. All sorts of things could happen. My suggestion is, before going in, think the worst that could happen and be prepared for it. Are you prepared for maybe her partner to be a creep that follows her around? Maybe he has a gun, maybe he is a cuck but gathers his braveness in that moments and shoots both of you. Chances of it not happening? High. Is it worth for a piece of *****? I don't think so.
 

hockeyfreak79

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Is the juice worth the squeeze? More than likely not. You've probably done it more times than you actually know, woman make **** up ALL the time.
 

mrgoodstuff

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It will rot you away. The fact that your asking is enough of an indicator it may not be good for you.
I know from experience these things are not good for a healthy man.
If you can bone her great. But you think it's a good idea to try to make her your woman?
 

El Payaso

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The fact that you have to ask this already tells me that you think it's okay.
 

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I am a bit mixed on this one...

My thoughts are "if the man does not have his $hit together, then she is going to cheat" AND.... would you want to be that guy that is getting cheated on? Remember how that felt (if it has happened to you) when your woman leaves for another dude. Pretty fvcking $hitty, right? On the plus side, it may create another redpiller =)

I like to look at everything as a risk/reward analysis... similar to my investments.

Risk
-Her SO comes after you
-The woman uses you until she shapes up
-She gets you attached, and you get fvcked...
-LTR and/or unstable plate with premise of cheating
-The list goes on...

Reward
-Great sex (which you can get anywhere)
-Attractive woman
-Possible LTR and/or plate
-Anything else...

Slaying another man's LTR is like a penny stock to me. Potentially great rewards, but the risk is wayyyyy too high. I prefer muni. bonds, CDs, and S&P Index funds; moderate amount of risk with solid dependable rewards.
 

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When I was about 20, I was talking to this woman who was older than me. We dated, everything was great, then one day she said we couldn't talk anymore and vanished. I was pretty broken up about it. Found her Facebook, turned out she was MARRIED and found out she was PREGNANT. I felt guilty for a long time but looking back now, there were signs she was very unhappy with her current life and we had fun. You gotta do what you feel is the right thing to do. Some women are open and honest about it like some men are... If it's not with you, she'll go ruin her relationship with someone else regardless... but if you're asking, sounds like you could be losing sleep over it already.
 
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