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  1. A

    Does TV Fuels Demand For Foreign Brides?

    Good news for the foreign bride industry, because of the popularization of Netflix shows like Narcos, the demand for foreign brides, especially in Latin American countries is rising. Netflix series Narcos recreates the story of drug lord Pablo Escobar and his run from the law in the multi-part...
  2. N

    Looking at OLD and seeing the same old..

    I don't think it's a good thing.. having broken up with my ex some 4-5 weeks ago and looking at POF it can't be good if you can still remember the same girls you saw 2 1/2 years ago on the site.. Maybe it's just me be reading the stuff they wrote now is a major turn off to me.. granted some of...
  3. GoodOne123

    What's going on?

    I was on a roll recently. I was pulling 1 or 2 girls a night at the club every week. This was going on for a month straight. But I just went out this weekend to the club, and didn't pull anything! I only got two dances though. Both girls were dragged away from me by their friends. I'm so...
  4. GoodOne123

    Drama with other guys/Social circles

    There is a small group of people I regularly go to the club with. Pretty much all are in a relationship except for me and this other guy. When I go out, I tend to on average dance with a few girls, and get a kiss from one. The other guy complains that he doesn't get any action, not even a...
  5. GoodOne123

    Almost got into a fight

    I was in the club recently. Happened to see a girl check me out. I step over to her. We dance and make out, no big deal. But at some point when we were together, a group of about 6 guys, all looking around 6 ft 2 and 200 lbs, circled us as some type of joke. They were squeezing us in their...
  6. C

    Dating troubles

    Hello fellow Dons, I am currently in a relationship with a girl I am crazy about. She is fun, exciting, and edgy. I love it. But the issue is that she seems like she has a bunch of underlying emotional issues. What I mean when I say this is, the typical my "parents didn't pay attention to...
  7. GoodOne123

    The Height Factor

    I'm 5 ft 10. I've never felt self conscious about my height, because I've always thought I'm tall enough. But recently I've started to feel a little insecure about it since I heard that my height nowadays is kinda short. As I paid attention going out I realise most guys my age are either same...
  8. darksprezzatura

    PART VI - DATING VS HANGING OUT

    "This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time" - Fight Club Dating is a woman's frame, you hang out with women. When you are hanging out with a girl, YOU are the prize, not her. You are qualifying her whether she's worth your time or not. Just like a woman's currency is sex, your...
  9. darksprezzatura

    PART V - MISTAKES AND INSIGHTS

    "Mistakes are always forgivable as long as you have the courage to admit them" - Bruce Lee Never create rapport before attraction At any point in your life, one woman should not be the sole focus of your game Never go the extra mile for a woman Infatuation begins due to a chemical called PEA -...
  10. darksprezzatura

    PART III A - EXTERNAL GAME (PHYSICAL)

    What you say to a woman is comparatively insignificant to HOW you say it. Studies prove that the effect of a message is 7% verbal, 38% is vocal aesthetics, tone of voice and rhythm. The rest 55% is body language, posture and presence. Subtle guidelines: Wide hand movements denote high...
  11. Thorninmyside

    It's not juggling if you're only holding one ball

    We get a lot of threads where a poster's only girl is referred to as a plate. He's worried about losing her. He screens her every text for possible **** tests. He considers every word he sends back as though it may cause a catastrophic turn of events that might dry up the plate's ***** (tip: you...
  12. C

    Good emotional investment, but bad sex = still good standing?

    Hi guys, new member here and I appreciate all your input and advice on my previous posts. I am very eager to learn what works and what does not in regards to pickup. Been a long time lurker and now deciding to take real action and learn! If you go on a date/s with a girl and had initial value...
  13. M

    The Most Common Mistakes That Men Make Begin With How They Text.

    Whether it's a text that you sent when you just met or even the text messages that you send now or in the future. I often wondered why potential candidates that I have met in the past abruptly stopped texting me as soon as I sent a "no no" text. I kept repeating these same mistakes until I...
  14. GoodOne123

    How to get in touch with my masculinity?

    I think the main part of the reason why I may have trouble with women is because I fail to get in touch with my masculinity, specifically in the context of social situations and communicating with women. I didn't have a particularly close relationship with my father, and he passed away as soon...
  15. GoodOne123

    Confused By Recent Experiences

    Following my previous thread, I have made this thread to share my recent experiences in going out at night and trying to improve my game. To summarise my previous thread I aim to gain more confidence, get the dating game all figured out, and end my frustrations. My main assets are my looks and...
  16. GoodOne123

    Frustrated, lonely, and feeling down

    I have been feeling like this recently. I realised that I was not getting the love life I desired from women. Which is to have fun with the loose types, and date seriously a good girl type if I find them. What makes it frustrating is that I know I'm a good looking guy. I've had women tell me...
  17. greatsnake

    experience with a single mom

    From the get-go, the sex was amazing-- everything that I would want was available. At times, I would even forget that she had a child given her freedom. I thought to myself that this was the woman might me the one. After a good 6 months of sharing, she started asking me to come to her family...
  18. S

    Why this sudden change of heart?

    So six months ago I met a girl at a local festival in my hometown. The way she smiled at me and eyed me made it clear she wanted me. Thus I decided to approach her. We had fun and kissed. After that we kept in touch through texting. A week later I coincidentally needed to go to her town for an...
  19. GoodOne123

    I need help

    I have become quite depressed, confused, and frustrated. I suspect it is for a number of reasons. Firstly, my father had recently passed away. It was cancer. My memories of the incident are rather vivid. The whole thing was so confusing. The worrying thing is that I don't know if I have fully...
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