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  1. M

    Amazing Pua

    Guys, yesterday I discovered a pua that closed 147 girls in one year, I saw some of his videos, I like his style, he is very direct and his way of doing could be very helpful to me because I tend to be very introverted and not a excellent communicator If I can link you the channel or tell you...
  2. M

    Cold approach

    I approached a girl a little while ago and one of the first things she told me was that she's engaged, I didn't insist because she was too young, she's 18 and I'm 32. When they tell you they are engaged what do you do? do you insist? do you still ask for her number? If it weren't for that...
  3. M


    Little story that happened recently I was texting a girl with whom we have mutual friends, she was very invested, she accepted flirting, long messages, voicemails, I asked her out after a few messages giving her the option to see us one day or the next, she managed to find excuses saying...
  4. M

    Text game tips

    Ok guys I wanted to share with you some points about text games with girls you don't know, hoping that I can help you in my small way. Based on my experiences, as already mentioned by many if a girl is interested she won't make your life difficult, she will be more receptive and will invest a...
  5. M

    Dating, social media

    Ok guys now I'm curious to hear your opinions and every day I can think of one haha It often happens that girls who follow me on social networks unfollow me for no reason It would seem that they are not interested but once I dated a girl who years ago removed me from facebook and revealed to...
  6. M

    Dating or work?

    Have you always put yourself out there with women even if you weren't financially well off? I'm 32 years old and unfortunately I don't have a permanent job, for a while I dated girls despite the situation but now I'm more focused on getting in shape financially. What do you think about it? Maybe...
  7. G

    Can it ever work out without a strong initial spark?

    I'm a 35 yo male, never married, I read the Rational Male books (1-2). I was thinking about this a few times before, maybe it's not really a red pill topic but generally about relationships. A few times in my life I went on a date with a girl who was attractive, intelligent but somehow I didn't...
  8. J

    the system doc love vs the rational male opininion?

    hey guys even though the two books have some things in common they are some topics where there are some differences. For example: • In the system doc says on the first date you should make the girl feel comfort it will rise her interest lvl. • In the rational male rollo says comfort in the...
  9. J

    Rollo tomassi Game book

    I have a question about tomassis book maybe some of you know the answer. He said its better to give hints about your life than to just tell her directly. For example saying that your long hours of studying are making you tired instead of saying that you are becoming a doctor (because it will...
  10. E

    Problems we face in international dating and making friends around the world.

    Hey, everybody! I am a member of a small startup. We try to find the solution to make new friends and relationships online easily. I would like to discuss problems that usually appear when you date worldwide online. It would be nice to make a call with you to get feedback. Thanks a lot.
  11. W

    Tried dating my ex-wifes best friend with her permission, now idk what to do..

    I've been reading the rational male and so much stuff is connecting for me but I'm looking for some feedback/mentorship on a situation I'm in. I'll be as brief as possible. Started seeing a girl 4 months ago basically every day. Have known her for like 13 years and we have been friends the...
  12. Firecrotch66

    Beginning to realize my girlfriend might be insane. Need advice if I should walk away.

    Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the...
  13. H

    VIDEO: 10 Reasons NOT to Date Single Moms

    I put out a podcast/videocast twice a week, and so far this is my most popular video. Apparently, people can relate to not dating single moms; the few times I tried, it just wasn't worth it. Would love to hear your thoughts about the subject!
  14. V

    Using "dating" as code for sex

    I disagree with @pyros. You're not the first person to say it but I vehemently disagree with it every time I hear it. I don't care if it's the way people talk. It contradicts the rules of the English language. If you go on more than one date with someone, you are literally dating them. It's not...
  15. HyenaPrince

    Is she shady? (Tinder Date)

    I've matched this woman on tinder a week ago. She's a solid 8. Blonde, great tits and works out. I haven't been texting her much. A couple of phrases to work out logistics. I told her to come to ABC restaurant at 5 pm and she was instantly down for it. This was today. Something important came up...
  16. J

    woman says she wants to date me but cant because my ex from 5 years ago is her close friend

    Can I have some input? Please I get on really well with a work colleague, me 53 her 47, we often work together. We seem very close and she flirts continually with me.She talks very very sexual to me as I would expect a girlfriend to I feel we would get on together and as we are both single, I...
  17. HyenaPrince

    Men Getting Lazy, VR-Online Dating and AI

    This combination is a topic that is going through my mind every now and then. I have been talking to my friends about it. And there seems to be a humorous consensus. The current online dating world is developing exponentially and there is no visible end to it. The usual suspects, meaning...
  18. GoodOne123

    Dating a woman with low self esteem

    So I've recently went on a date with a girl i met at a nightclub. We went to a bar for a first date, but some things and behaviours have worried me: She mentioned her self esteem has been very low in the past, and her friends have had to work very hard to improve it. She compliments my eyes...
  19. GoodOne123

    Help this is messing with my head

    Hey guys, A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but...
  20. L

    Recent Experience - Would love feedback/suggestions!

    Hey All, Went to a Meetup last week and met a bunch of dope people. One of the girls in particular stood out - cute, funny, sarcastic, and loads of sass. I invited her, and the entire group of people I met to go apple picking today. All, but myself and the girl I had eyes on were able to...