Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What happened?

GoodOne123

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Last night I went to the club again.

Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl.

The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty.

As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with eachother, the guys in her group try to get her off me, or get in her ear to talk to her.

She was quite discreet with displaying her signs of interest with me. Like she grabbed my bum at an angle where none of the guys saw it. And she was quite reluctant to kiss me in front of them, even though a typical girl I would find in the club would go right ahead.

This is where I suspected she had a boyfriend.

I asked a couple of the guys. One said yes another said no. But a third guy came up to me and said that she has a boyfriend and that I shouldn't be offended because there is nothing wrong with me.

This is where I though that she most likely has a boyfriend. Even if she doesn't, the guys in her group would ****block me all night.

At this point, I saw the guys guiding her away from me, so I left the group completely and looked for other girls.

Guys was there any way to get with this girl in this situation? What would you have done?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spaz

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
 

wifehunter

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
I know right? Guys have no lives, these days.o_O Oh well, I guess I'll just have to enjoy having zero competition.:p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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