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  1. W

    Tried dating my ex-wifes best friend with her permission, now idk what to do..

    I've been reading the rational male and so much stuff is connecting for me but I'm looking for some feedback/mentorship on a situation I'm in. I'll be as brief as possible. Started seeing a girl 4 months ago basically every day. Have known her for like 13 years and we have been friends the...
  2. Firecrotch66

    Beginning to realize my girlfriend might be insane. Need advice if I should walk away.

    Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the...
  3. H

    VIDEO: 10 Reasons NOT to Date Single Moms

    I put out a podcast/videocast twice a week, and so far this is my most popular video. Apparently, people can relate to not dating single moms; the few times I tried, it just wasn't worth it. Would love to hear your thoughts about the subject!
  4. V

    Using "dating" as code for sex

    I disagree with @pyros. You're not the first person to say it but I vehemently disagree with it every time I hear it. I don't care if it's the way people talk. It contradicts the rules of the English language. If you go on more than one date with someone, you are literally dating them. It's not...
  5. HyenaPrince

    Is she shady? (Tinder Date)

    I've matched this woman on tinder a week ago. She's a solid 8. Blonde, great tits and works out. I haven't been texting her much. A couple of phrases to work out logistics. I told her to come to ABC restaurant at 5 pm and she was instantly down for it. This was today. Something important came up...
  6. J

    woman says she wants to date me but cant because my ex from 5 years ago is her close friend

    Can I have some input? Please I get on really well with a work colleague, me 53 her 47, we often work together. We seem very close and she flirts continually with me.She talks very very sexual to me as I would expect a girlfriend to I feel we would get on together and as we are both single, I...
  7. HyenaPrince

    Men Getting Lazy, VR-Online Dating and AI

    This combination is a topic that is going through my mind every now and then. I have been talking to my friends about it. And there seems to be a humorous consensus. The current online dating world is developing exponentially and there is no visible end to it. The usual suspects, meaning...
  8. GoodOne123

    Dating a woman with low self esteem

    So I've recently went on a date with a girl i met at a nightclub. We went to a bar for a first date, but some things and behaviours have worried me: She mentioned her self esteem has been very low in the past, and her friends have had to work very hard to improve it. She compliments my eyes...
  9. GoodOne123

    Help this is messing with my head

    Hey guys, A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but...
  10. L

    Recent Experience - Would love feedback/suggestions!

    Hey All, Went to a Meetup last week and met a bunch of dope people. One of the girls in particular stood out - cute, funny, sarcastic, and loads of sass. I invited her, and the entire group of people I met to go apple picking today. All, but myself and the girl I had eyes on were able to...
  11. L

    Not Your Friend

    Heyo, I've been going on Meetup events lately and met, and connected with some dope people. They're all around my age and there's this one girl I'm interested in. I joke around with her quite a bit, and while I've invited her out to go Apple Picking this Sat (she may or may not be able to...
  12. GoodOne123

    Why did she ghost?

    I met a girl about a month ago at a nightclub. We made out on the dancefloor for ages. I went and got some food with her after the club closed. She said how she loves how mature I am and enjoys talking to me too. Couldn't get her back to my place since her friend was sick and she needed to take...
  13. S

    Your opinions on MGTOW/Red Pill?

    Hi guys. Recently, I have been really anxious and lost from so many mgtow/red pill videos I have seen. I have heard so many horror stories about relationships, "truths" about female nature (hypergamy, women don't actually care about you unless you can provide them something, etc.) And that game...
  14. ariesc

    Texting Game

    Hello friends, So now I am thrown back into the dating pool after a 4 year relationship that went south I'm now trying to get re acclimated to the whole texting protocol and I want to get some of your input on the world of texting gals nowadays. This past week I've locked in around 4 dates...
  15. B

    Texting between dates

    Hey All, Went on a good first date on a Saturday that ended with kissing/heavy petting in my car as I drove her home/dropped her off. While I could have tried extending the date and asked to go inside her home with her, I chose not to. Upon getting home myself, she texted me asking to hangout...
  16. 4evehayoung

    Marriage and dating issue - need advice.

    Greetings, I am a new member and have read the Rational Male several months ago. Everything I read in that book confirmed that what I felt what not right with our culture regarding men and women is actually true. I just turned 60 but look and feel 30. I put a high priority on a fit and...
  17. resilient

    Of leaves, branches, and roots

    I wanted to share with you guys a cool video @Roober sent me. It's from a musical play that toured 2005~2006 with comedian Tyler Perry dressed up as an old lady talking to a younger man who is having relationship trouble. There are many pearls of wisdom and lessons that can be taken from the...
  18. B

    3 dates, two hookups, now what

    First date (on a Thursday) was patio drinks then a walk outdoors on a warm summer evening. Holding hands on the walk, hugging, and the date ending with her suggesting a second date on Sunday. She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad...
  19. Von

    LTR/GF reporting back to me that she's being ''hit'' and he's a ''creep''

    Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...
  20. touma.akagi

    How does one date on a tight budget?

    Surprisingly, I've never seen anybody bring this topic up! I myself don't have a whole lot of money and I'd love to hear your thoughts
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