rejection

I don't want to end up like this guy..felt chest pain from this

What was wrong with my approach? Profile of target Filipina in her 30s Long hair length ti her hip so short, when she stands on the stairs that is 3 step high, she is on the same height as me. Outside of fast food chain chick ate alone at table.i waited several minutes before going up to...

Hey, I finally took the courage and asked out this seemingly perfect HB10 at work (long legs, great body, classy, well read, head turner looks). No texting ****. Been flirting a bit for past 3-4 days and finally decided to take my shot. I asked her for a moment, and then told her i found her...

Has anyone else had really strong approach anxiety/fear of rejection to the point where you're scared to go talk to a girl whose giving you IOIs? How did you get past it?

We got a live one. Forewarning, I posted here. So that means I accept the terms of me absolutely tearing down my entire outlook on life. Last week, I (M33) went shopping with our divorced (best)friend (34F), who had previously been friends. We had a few flirtatious moments together, including...

Hello, I'm doing the DJ boot camp and my task this week is to talk to girls I find attractive. I go to my campus to do this task but i found out that girls aren't really interested in talking to strangers. I talked to this exchange student from Spain today, and she was just answering to my...

Hey All, Went to a Meetup last week and met a bunch of dope people. One of the girls in particular stood out - cute, funny, sarcastic, and loads of sass. I invited her, and the entire group of people I met to go apple picking today. All, but myself and the girl I had eyes on were able to...

I'm an AFC and don't want to be. Upbringing was "If you want the girl- open doors for her, keep a respectful distance, don't 'lust' after her, (etc...), and she will keep going out with you until you fall in love and live happily ever after." These are the following problems I suspect I need to...

Hey guys, I had an interesting situation this weekend. I will explain it and it would be nice if i got feedbacks about it. I've met an interesting girl, that had a nice chat with me (books, philosophy, psichology, personal development) and she stayed at my home this weekend with a friend I...

I've come here so try and get advice on how to get the creatures (women) to hate me at least a little less. But more importantly, to pacify my intense hate for them. Especially since, even me, I've had some measure of interaction with them that were positive. My top interactions? They wanted...

Hi. So, i don't really know what to do with this girl from class - i've had a really big crush on her for about 2 -3 months (oneitis, i know) and we've talked for 6 months. Since the beginning, she has been (very) physical and flirting with me which i have reciprocated and intensified since...

So I’ve been friends with this girl for a while, through mutual friends, she would flirt with me and want to hang out weekly, I made a move and got rejected so I cut her off. She contacted me randomly and I decided I was gonna reject her ljbf offer due to me trying to leave my arc behavior...

Hi everyone! This is my first post on the forum, although I've already seen several discussion as a spectator. With the following, my intent is to ask you for help to defeat the last and most painful beta-behavior that's still rooted within myself. Ready? Let's go. Problem: I'm not used to...

So I read Roosh's Bang and adopted most of the concepts and added my own flavour to the game. A couple of days of texting a HB 6 hard teasing push pull. She was receptive but still a little anxious it seemed. First date, lots of kino, hand over her body, comfort, staring, told me she likes me...

So six months ago I met a girl at a local festival in my hometown. The way she smiled at me and eyed me made it clear she wanted me. Thus I decided to approach her. We had fun and kissed. After that we kept in touch through texting. A week later I coincidentally needed to go to her town for an...

Quick caveat. I’m on gardening leave until January, when I start my new role. This week I spent my days in the gym, cooking, and reading the Rational Male and Irwin Shaw novels (cheers for the recommend on that one @fastlife. Great read) This has afforded me the luxury of time. What I liked...

I like this girl and I told my best friend the story behind it and everything. Her and her boyfriend broke up about a month ago, so I figured I could take my shot. Two weeks ago, my best friend talked to the girl and mentioned my name. The girl said "He s cool but I just got out of a...

I do not know whether girl is rejecting me or playing because she sends ambigous messages. Here is the story: Girl from my company started to hit on me but very subtely. At some point I decided that I want her and opportunity arrived in form of company party. At the party she get a bit drunk...

Ignore the title -- I meant "she was taken and rejected me. Now she's single and uninterested.. I think" I am an incoming college sophomore. This occurred freshman year. Before I found out she was in a relationship, she had already blew off our lunch date. When I found out she was taken a...

I've met this girl online. We arranged for a phone call and she seemed quite interested. I felt I got every possible sh*t test out there from her and passed most of them. However, toward the end, there was one sensitive topic where I started to explain myself and I instead of just brushing it...