life

Hello Sosuave members, I came here looking for insight into your individual lives to compare and contrast the value of having male friends. I'm currently 20 Years old, I will be turning 21 next week. In my life, I mainly had negative experiences with multiple male social groups. I came across...

After I took courage to broke my relationship, left my dad's company job and the house he owns that I used to live... Some big shifts are coming. Idk but I'm on my second week and my energy is so high... Finish my mobile game dev (I develop casual games and do all the music production, coding...

Recently I have been thinking about how I have not yet found my purpose. This is bothering me because I feel like I'm just drifting through life without it. I've watched videos on YouTube where people say that when you're just drifting through life youlle be more likely to be obsessed with...

I don't know if I'm just getting out of this Life Matrix, sometimes I think yes, sometimes I question myself if it's really healthy to dig deeper into the truth. This is not only about women, it goes far away from that and it scares me what is going to happen in the future. So far, here was the...

Maybe I just got crazy, or maybe I just can't handle all the pain anymore. I don't see any meaning in being a good man, since even if you're the best for society, people will try to kick you down. Family, friends, women... There's no meaning chasing sex or playing the game of sex, since even...

When I finally accept myself 100% and all my human imperfections. When I successfully complete my career transition. When I have medical initials attached to my last name. When I finally internalize IDGAF. When I don’t care if I make as much as the next guy. When I don’t care about the...

"Any man who reads too much and uses his own brain too little falls into lazy habits of thinking."- Albert Einstein I noticed when I created goals for myself, they immediately created anxiety within me which many times overwhelmed me. It was easy planning things, than actually following through...

I currently live in my mother's house. I am doing this to save a bit of money before I move out. I contribute to bills and taxes already. But I do also give lifts with my car if I'm needed. Yesterday I gave a lift to my mother to a store. She said I should drive her back home from there...

Hi guys, In my soul searching life and many inactions (felt I had no purpose until I was 25, videogames, just going by) and life changing experience (suicide, accident, death, family issues, crazy girlfriend, lack of sexual drive, narcissic mother aka I am a mommy boy, etc etc..). My first GF...

"Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power." - Lao Tzu What is frame? Frame is your overall reality. It's your personal rose coloured tinted glasses which you use to view the world. It's the ability to define and maintain terms of the social interaction and the ability...

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner" - Robert De Niro I see a lot of improvement in myself, and I'd like thank you guys for the support by bringing more to the table. This is my natural view...

Hi guys. I've come here humbled to show you what you might have been missing on. Have you ever been dumped? Have you been treated bad by a woman? Have you ever been cheated on? Have you tolerated misery instead of walking away? Has a woman played games with you? If you answered YES to any one...

Let me ask you a question, have you ever fantasised about having a Lamborghini sometimes? It's a work of art. Most of us probably can't have it but none of us spend all day pining for it. I'm sure a woman might've occupied your thoughts that way, in a oneitis situation in your past or...

This site -showed me the happiness brotherhood can impart on a man. - improved what I knew about game, frame, self-respect, self-improvement and boundaries. -taught me how social and sexual dynamics work in reality and how to go about them. I will always be grateful towards the legends who...

I have become quite depressed, confused, and frustrated. I suspect it is for a number of reasons. Firstly, my father had recently passed away. It was cancer. My memories of the incident are rather vivid. The whole thing was so confusing. The worrying thing is that I don't know if I have fully...

There is this man who stood in the deepest shadows of a tunnel. He has no shape and no form. He is tall and yet he is short. He is colorless while having colors. His face is a blur, he could be anyone. At the end of the tunnel there is a light. A light that gives him shape, color and form. The...

It feels like I am in bad place right now and need help and advice as to how to cope. This post is not just about women and relationships, but is about life and family as well. It has been already a while since my mother has been diagnosed with a serious illness. Unfortunately, the doctors have...

I'm a Junior in Highschool. I've personally explored the extremes in life for myself. As far as nihilistic views and even toxic relationships, but I've also experienced very positive extremes. One night stands, sex with several girls in a couple weeks, but also stable relationships. In order...