The World is getting insane or I'm getting insane!

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I don't know if I'm just getting out of this Life Matrix, sometimes I think yes, sometimes I question myself if it's really healthy to dig deeper into the truth.

This is not only about women, it goes far away from that and it scares me what is going to happen in the future. So far, here was the only place I've saw some people with valid arguments not only about women, but about other life's questions.

Some stuffs I'm observing:

1 - People are always trying to blame others for their own pain. It's hard to see someone act with awareness and assume responsibility and understand what is their fault or not. Also, it's easier to blame someone than to assume your own mistakes right?

2 - I think there is a passive agression rising on this age with so much comparison on social media, so much desires being triggered by false idealizations. It's like a pressure cooker about to burst. Everything you do that doesn't conform to other people's values is a cause for hatred.

3 - There is a lot of "Truth Owners" like feminists, leftists (not only with those concepts but even with small and stupid things)... defending irrational and illogical ideas and they express a huge hate for the different mind opinions.

4 - Society says: Your childrens are the most important thing... you must sacrifice everything for them. Don't be absent, don't be a bad parent, you must be a perfect one. **** about you... whenever you got a son, you should null yourself and do everything to him. Doing that you will raise a spoiled and weak child in the world that will blame everyone who doesn't give him/her attention or doesn't do what he/she wants.

5 - We work hard to get some money, and at least here where I live almost 45% is taken away from you with taxes. We do not get rid of slavery. Unfortunately I see people living like: Working the whole week, then on weekend spent money drinking at bars or drug abusing to try to hide this pain of living the way they lives. Why bothering being better at something? Life is what it is, not worth going after great things right? I prefer die trying to achieve something great than die and live like everyone is living.

6 - NoFap and NoSoM (No Social Media): I've never acquire so much benefit in my life than deleting my social media accounts. They say that NoFap is great, but I couldn't imagine how many time I was losing with social media. Not being on a forum sharing and learning stuffs, but seeing unuseful feeds and people trying to inflate their ego with "Fake Happiness". People are losing so many things in life because of this bad usage of social media, it's sad. I've lost so many things being addicted to it... It's like freeing yourself and finding the free time and peace of mind you always wanted.

7 - Crap and Dump Information: there is so much crap on Courses, Youtube, Books that is really hard to find some good content out there. I had to learn to dig really deep to find any good content. Most of them want one thing: Sell yourself something without giving you any value in return. Or go around and say nothing useful. They prefer to become Marketing specialists rather than become specialists in what they have to offer.

8 - Sex is awesome, but become a slave of it is dangerous. I think for us men it's a big challenge to balance it. It's our nature to have sex and we could not just get away from that... but sometimes I could see that I've spent a huge amount of time chasing women and leaving behind some priorities only for the necessity of orgasm. And this is something we all pass through during our lives... with some experience we learn how to manage it better.

I think maybe it's coming a hard time in this World to make we become strong again. Like: "Difficult times creates Strong men that creates Good times and creates Weak men, then the cycle repeats." We're in this Weak Stage of the Game.
 

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I think about this a lot. Then, I think back to my father's era. He grew up thinking that the Kingston Trio was cutting edge. I don't know if his fraternity did the swallowing goldfish crowding into a phone booth thing, but that was his era.
Less than ten years later, he saw men growing their hair the same length as women, teens taking LSD, burning flags and draft cards. He probably didn't think that we'd survive ten more years.

15 years later, it was the Regan era.

Like the above, I think it's basically a pendulum swinging back and forth. When I look at attitudes today, I feel like my father in the late 1960's. I have hope that in another 15 years, things will revert back to normal (or 'normal' as I see and like things).
 

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I blame Hollywood / entertainment industry. It shows how it easy it is to make money and be famous. Why study hard for years and get into tons of debt when you can be discovered and be adored and rich and famous?

Especially attractive women. Take off your clothes for a few sex scenes, seduce the famous leading man and you are set for life.

Sharon Stone is worth $70,000,000. Neurosurgeons make $575,000.

I’m sure glad Sharon Stone provided such an important and valuable service to the world.
 

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I don't know if I'm just getting out of this Life Matrix, sometimes I think yes, sometimes I question myself if it's really healthy to dig deeper into the truth.

This is not only about women, it goes far away from that and it scares me what is going to happen in the future. So far, here was the only place I've saw some people with valid arguments not only about women, but about other life's questions.

Some stuffs I'm observing:

1 - People are always trying to blame others for their own pain. It's hard to see someone act with awareness and assume responsibility and understand what is their fault or not. Also, it's easier to blame someone than to assume your own mistakes right?

2 - I think there is a passive agression rising on this age with so much comparison on social media, so much desires being triggered by false idealizations. It's like a pressure cooker about to burst. Everything you do that doesn't conform to other people's values is a cause for hatred.

3 - There is a lot of "Truth Owners" like feminists, leftists (not only with those concepts but even with small and stupid things)... defending irrational and illogical ideas and they express a huge hate for the different mind opinions.

4 - Society says: Your childrens are the most important thing... you must sacrifice everything for them. Don't be absent, don't be a bad parent, you must be a perfect one. **** about you... whenever you got a son, you should null yourself and do everything to him. Doing that you will raise a spoiled and weak child in the world that will blame everyone who doesn't give him/her attention or doesn't do what he/she wants.

5 - We work hard to get some money, and at least here where I live almost 45% is taken away from you with taxes. We do not get rid of slavery. Unfortunately I see people living like: Working the whole week, then on weekend spent money drinking at bars or drug abusing to try to hide this pain of living the way they lives. Why bothering being better at something? Life is what it is, not worth going after great things right? I prefer die trying to achieve something great than die and live like everyone is living.

6 - NoFap and NoSoM (No Social Media): I've never acquire so much benefit in my life than deleting my social media accounts. They say that NoFap is great, but I couldn't imagine how many time I was losing with social media. Not being on a forum sharing and learning stuffs, but seeing unuseful feeds and people trying to inflate their ego with "Fake Happiness". People are losing so many things in life because of this bad usage of social media, it's sad. I've lost so many things being addicted to it... It's like freeing yourself and finding the free time and peace of mind you always wanted.

7 - Crap and Dump Information: there is so much crap on Courses, Youtube, Books that is really hard to find some good content out there. I had to learn to dig really deep to find any good content. Most of them want one thing: Sell yourself something without giving you any value in return. Or go around and say nothing useful. They prefer to become Marketing specialists rather than become specialists in what they have to offer.

8 - Sex is awesome, but become a slave of it is dangerous. I think for us men it's a big challenge to balance it. It's our nature to have sex and we could not just get away from that... but sometimes I could see that I've spent a huge amount of time chasing women and leaving behind some priorities only for the necessity of orgasm. And this is something we all pass through during our lives... with some experience we learn how to manage it better.

I think maybe it's coming a hard time in this World to make we become strong again. Like: "Difficult times creates Strong men that creates Good times and creates Weak men, then the cycle repeats." We're in this Weak Stage of the Game.
You are correct sir.

 

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This is a function of democracy.

The basic marketing strategy for any person who wants to rule other people is:

Your problems are not your fault. They are somebody else's fault. Vote for me and I'll fix it.

Once this idea is combined with social media and unlimited debt, it eventually destroys self responsibility and any concept of delayed gratification.

People get more entitles, dumber, and lazier, while having crappier lives that they inevitably blame on whatever "group" that seems the easiest to blame.

Societies filled with people like this CANNOT survive.
 

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Like the above, I think it's basically a pendulum swinging back and forth. When I look at attitudes today, I feel like my father in the late 1960's. I have hope that in another 15 years, things will revert back to normal (or 'normal' as I see and like things).
Hope that too!

Sometimes when I'm thinking about life and everything that is happening... I'm affraid that we are in a imminent danger of a new World War. I know it's kind of difficult because the ones in charge knows that with atomic bomb they can destroy the whole world. Just hope that no crazy guy assume a position of president in a country with that kind of power.
 

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I blame Hollywood / entertainment industry. It shows how it easy it is to make money and be famous. Why study hard for years and get into tons of debt when you can be discovered and be adored and rich and famous?

Especially attractive women. Take off your clothes for a few sex scenes, seduce the famous leading man and you are set for life.

Sharon Stone is worth $70,000,000. Neurosurgeons make $575,000.

I’m sure glad Sharon Stone provided such an important and valuable service to the world.
Dump people are easy to manipulate.

You log into instagram nowadays and the majority of women in there are all taking photos showing their body, they are becoming "Digital Influencers" and trying to pretend they are important or famous. The same with guys, trying to show a fake power, status only to "try" a change with those girls.

Instead of studying and becoming really good at something... build a company and make money, then if you want to show that ok. You built that.

Hollywood, Music Industry, Party industry, Drinks Industry, Politics... they want us to be just the way we are. Easy Peezy manipulated sheeps.
 

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This is a function of democracy.

The basic marketing strategy for any person who wants to rule other people is:

Your problems are not your fault. They are somebody else's fault. Vote for me and I'll fix it.

Once this idea is combined with social media and unlimited debt, it eventually destroys self responsibility and any concept of delayed gratification.

People get more entitles, dumber, and lazier, while having crappier lives that they inevitably blame on whatever "group" that seems the easiest to blame.

Societies filled with people like this CANNOT survive.
The biggest true!
 

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here is the thing, the world is not getting insane, he was always insane, everything you said was never new

people working his ass to support, the goverment, nobles, the church, was always there

people blamming others for they problems and everyone have a magic solution, they just need to listen they dumb idea

understanding this won't bring freedom, won't make you happy. if you want to be happy the best way is being a ignorant savant.
 
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here is the thing, the world is not getting insane, he was always insane, everything you said was never new

people working his ass to support, the goverment, nobles, the church, was always there

people blamming others for they problems and everyone have a magic solution, they just need to listen they dumb idea

understanding this won't bring freedom, won't make you happy. if you want to be happy the best way is being a ignorant savant.
Understanding this give you inner freedom but not happiness... since you understand how things works you can adapt yourself to obtain some benefits from it. If you are ignorant you will never get more than a "normal" life. But with this knowledge, you can plan everything you do with awareness.

100% freedom is really an illusion... since we're born, we're already Death's slaves.

Another point is, to come at this conclusion it is necessary to break a lot of mental barriers (it took me a long time to understand that). You're right when you say that World was always insane and it's not news... the thing is to come into this understanding. Not everyone get to this point without leaving behind their alienations and with high effort. Only if you're raised on a family that educated you in this way.

And yes, if you're ignorant you will be happier... what eyes cant see, heart don't feels. But since you start understanding life, theres no way back.
 

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Understanding this give you inner freedom but not happiness... since you understand how things works you can adapt yourself to obtain some benefits from it. If you are ignorant you will never get more than a "normal" life. But with this knowledge, you can plan everything you do with awareness.

100% freedom is really an illusion... since we're born, we're already Death's slaves.

Another point is, to come at this conclusion it is necessary to break a lot of mental barriers (it took me a long time to understand that). You're right when you say that World was always insane and it's not news... the thing is to come into this understanding. Not everyone get to this point without leaving behind their alienations and with high effort. Only if you're raised on a family that educated you in this way.

And yes, if you're ignorant you will be happier... what eyes cant see, heart don't feels. But since you start understanding life, theres no way back.
true, but understand, a family could never teach you this, its a lone path, you will learn, see what happen, and you will be alone on doing so, family parents are know for alienating they kids, the worse is its not a concious effort, they do this because they belive they will protect, will amke you happy, parents never tell they kids how hard is, they want to let the kids belive they are ok even when they are not.

so no, family will neerlet you know what you need to know, they want you to be well and in a good live, the most egoistical want the kids to carry then since they are too lazy or too dumb, hence why I belive the low IQ people have tons of kids when the higher IQ working parents have 1 maybe 2 if at all
 

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true, but understand, a family could never teach you this, its a lone path, you will learn, see what happen, and you will be alone on doing so, family parents are know for alienating they kids, the worse is its not a concious effort, they do this because they belive they will protect, will amke you happy, parents never tell they kids how hard is, they want to let the kids belive they are ok even when they are not.

so no, family will neerlet you know what you need to know, they want you to be well and in a good live, the most egoistical want the kids to carry then since they are too lazy or too dumb, hence why I belive the low IQ people have tons of kids when the higher IQ working parents have 1 maybe 2 if at all
That's right! I can see clearly those things this year in my life... and that's what's making me learn to live like I have no parents. It's painful, and difficult to swallow... but it allow us to become man.
 
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