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  1. M

    Alcohol, game

    I don't know if there was already a thread on the subject. How much does alcohol influence your game? To me a lot, I'm 32 years old and I've tried many drugs in my life and it often happened to drink on the weekend, it may be that I'm no longer used to drinking but when it happens I realize...
  2. CollegeMan22

    A Review of the Basics

    I see a lot of useless bickering on here about the state of women in general. Women might not be up to the caliber they once were, and they probably have higher standards. Okay. Well guess what? That’s the game now. That’s the premise of approaching women. It is best to accept reality as...
  3. Casanova Official

    Path to learning Game

    Hey everyone. This is my first thread in this forum. I thought I would introduce myself and ask you all Game luminaries for advice regarding learning Game. It's probably been 2 weeks that I found out about the red pill. What do you think is the fastest and most optimised path to learning game...
  4. Fantasmo

    Where to meet highly attractive women as a 20 year old not currently enrolled in school?

    Background: I've been studying the game since I was about 15 (yeah I know.....) after already having internalized the fact that my highly religious mormon dad wasn't gonna tell me **** when it came to what I needed to have even minimal success with women (he was a varsity quarterback with sports...
  5. J

    good looking 20year old with no girls

    Hey Guys i really hope you can help me im 20 years old. I have a problem with girls since ever im good looking, i have money i have a good style i have good hygiene, many girls look at me and ask my friends about me but i dont have anyy girls. It could be arrogance it could be low self esteem it...
  6. J

    night game good start but bad end

    Hey Guys I always make out with girls in the club but I never get the girl to go home with me. Do you have any tips how to go from the club home with the girl? What are some rules or nogos in the club like what is seductive and what is too needy? btw im 20
  7. J

    Girl calls me arrogant good or bad? rp bp

    I think I changed alot of my blue pill thinking to red pill. What I realise now after a while that I talk a lot ****y&Funny with girls. Not a good example but today me and a girl were mocking each other a bit and she said she didnt sleep well today and I said oh im so sorry for you i will cry...
  8. GoodOne123

    What have you achieved during lockdown?

    I'm curious what you guys have been up to. Here what I have done so far: Workout 4-5 days a week. 50 pullups and 50 pushups per workout minimum. I sometimes do handstand pushups instead of the regular ones. Made second instagram account based on my passion for music. I've been uploading often...
  9. Black Magic

    Can you help me respond to this message?

    Alright, I've been chatting up this girl on social media for almost a year now. I asked her out early on and she seemed sort of into it but then said she had plans. I was ok with it cause at the time I was trying not to date so it worked out. However, I'm ready to start dating again so've been...
  10. XThrax

    Orlando meetup

    Hey people if you are ever in Orlando I host a international and travelers Meetup group that meets certain Fridays in downtown Orlando. If you are ever in the area be sure to swing by. We can talk about what we are both doing in game and the types of women we encountered across the world. I can...
  11. J

    Getting a divorce at 50

    Need help -- My wife of 18 years blindsided me a couple of months ago and asked for a divorce. She's 45 and I'm 50. I went through the phases - grief, denial, anger, acceptance. I've been trying to come to grips with being single again. A buddy recently gave me a copy of The Rational Male...
  12. Mauvilla4

    What do you think of this game move?

    I overnegged a girl (19 YO, a 7 in a place where 9's and 10's are almost unicorns) I’m trying to bed and the conversation went like this: Her: my BF has better abs than you. (She often touches my abs and sees me shirtless because we work out together, nevertheless there’s no way her BF has...
  13. GoodOne123

    What happened?

    Last night I went to the club again. Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl. The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty. As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with...
  14. devilkingx2

    How has learning game (whether red pill theory or PUA tactics or anything else) helped you?

    There's been a lot of anti-game hysteria here lately so i figured that it would be a great time to make a thread about the other side of the coin, So guys, lets talk about how game could've helped you in the past, or has actually helped you get a girl. Tell some stories of times when it wasn't...
  15. GoodOne123

    Did I do the right thing?

    Basically I met a girl 2 weeks ago at a club. I fingered her and got her number. We slept with eachother a few days later when we met in the club again. It was Valentine's day recently. I didn't text her or take her out or anything. I didnt see the point since we aren't close like that. Now...
  16. GoodOne123

    How do I treat a girl like this?

    Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor. No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d. I got her number before her friend dragged her away. I played it cool and texted her saying I hope...
  17. devilkingx2

    How do you feel about approaching girls who aren't alone?

    Whether cold or warm or hot, direct or indirect, night game or day, how do you feel about approaching multiple girls (at least 2, or more who are together, like a group) I've always thought that this was an absolute must avoid because it seems way harder, but reflecting on it, it went slightly...
  18. Duke Smellington

    Results since taking the redpill

    Before I get into the results I've experienced in my first stage of taking and absorbing the redpill truth, I'll start with some background about myself.. I was raised in a blue-pill, Christian home by mom, grandmother, and a feminized father who was financially and emotionally ravaged by the...
  19. GoodOne123

    This blows my mind

    I meet a girl at a house party. She asks about me on the night. Gives me compliments. Isolates me from the group and smokes a cigarette with me. I escalate, she invites me over to hers. She says she really wants to sleep with me but she is on her period so she can't sleep with me...
  20. B

    Field Report - Bar Crawling

    I won't be engaging trolls. Trying not to get banned. Update from last field report: fvcked five different chicks from a total of like 15-20 numbers. Haven't fvcked anything today because I dont want to be sedated. Going out tonight as per the usual. A guy I hit the scene with last week has...