my observation about girls

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I saw that if you talk to girls first time then she is not likely going to be the one starting conversation when she sees you again on the street or somewhere. you will have to be the one to start a conversation again

i wonder is there a psychological reason as to why girls don't start a conversation despite the guy not being a stranger anymore?

btw i am 19 so wanting to know from you experiences older brothers and uncles
 

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Workout.
Talk to women (as friends).
Get a college job (talk to women as friends).
Hang out with people.
Stay away from drugs.
 

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Workout.
Talk to women (as friends).
Get a college job (talk to women as friends).
Hang out with people.
Stay away from drugs.
yeah good advice and "drugs" not a problem outside of western culture because people don't like it here. i feel like making every girl my gf so i don't think of making friends
 

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you misunderstood it. i said i feel like it not that i am doing it. it's an urge inside me to make everyone my gf
Decide in the quality of women you like. Decide what you want, this should help you narrow down how you find attractive.

Don’t get caught up in looks/clothing/etc.
 

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Girls will only feel as comfortable with you as you are with them-- to create that comfort takes time. Men and women are vastly different.. we wont connect the same way with a chick the way we do with a cool dude that we met.. and same for women and other girls.

Sometimes you do meet a girl and you have great rapport instantly.. But other times, when a girl is crushing on you or something, they'll try their best to conceal it and often be in their head about whether to say hi or not or see if you say hi to them, etc.

Lastly, sometimes girls are trying to show you they are simply not interested in you and have a feeling like you might be into them.
 

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Waiting for someone to say some magic number like 80. Like, if you approach a girl 80 times in different places (over a span of months to years), then on the 81st time where she sees you 1st, she'll be the 1st to talk to you. And for some girl, that number is a lot less than 80.
 

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i wonder is there a psychological reason as to why girls don't start a conversation despite the guy not being a stranger anymore?
The one who acknowledges last holds the power.

Imagine the other way:
You're walking around college being handsome and this pretty woman walks up to you. If you greet her first, she will be special among the other women, but if she greets you first she knows who you are among the other handsome men, maybe you're even the most handsome.

So, being the one to acknowledge last puts you in the most advantageous position.

And if you happen to greet first and she doesn't greet you back, you look foolish.
 
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