Laziness

[manfromitaly]

Are you lazy with women? If I think about my life I certainly could have had many more relationships, but I'm very lazy, I've never had very long relationships and consequently I've gotten used to being fine alone.

I kind of envy some people I know because they're always on point like they never get tired of meeting new women.

Who among you is like me? What do you think makes us so lazy with women?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ime the more I “try” with women, the worse my results get. Being lazy is the only solution that has gotten me laid

 

[Redwood]

Ime the more I “try” with women, the worse my results get. Being lazy is the only solution that has gotten me laid

It's pretty ironic.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I'm extremely lazy. I've turned down countless opportunies due to apathy, especially with overt chances to get laid.

With respect to relationships, less so, but in general I put so little care into the interactions which definitely hurts my chances.

 

[SargeMaximus]

“Some guys are trying too hard, he don’t try at all tho” -Taylor Swift

 

[Robert28]

I’m extremely lazy with women. I think it’s just a lifetime of all the bs has burned me out with them. When I was on online dating I’d get tons of matches but too lazy to message them, or too lazy to write them back when they’d message me. I knew they’d never go anywhere and I’m not going to waste my time if I can’t get the outcome I want. I’ll never be outcome independent becsuse I’m not that way in any other aspect of my life and it’s served me well, not gonna be that way with women. I need results or I’ll quit.

 

[Ricky]

Ime the more I “try” with women, the worse my results get. Being lazy is the only solution that has gotten me laid

Id kind of add that the main thing has been the more i focus on one woman but the more issues ive had

 

[Ricky]

I'm extremely lazy. I've turned down countless opportunies due to apathy, especially with overt chances to get laid.

With respect to relationships, less so, but in general I put so little care into the interactions which definitely hurts my chances.

some of the women ive turned down to get laid recently are directly due to my lack of interest in anything even short term with the women involved

 

[manfromitaly]

Ime the more I “try” with women, the worse my results get. Being lazy is the only solution that has gotten me laid

I understand, but I think that in a certain sense you were in contact with women, maybe work? did you go out in the evening? For example, I have a job where there are no women and I haven't been out in the evening for a while, so it's difficult for me to get noticed

 

[manfromitaly]

I'm extremely lazy. I've turned down countless opportunies due to apathy, especially with overt chances to get laid.

With respect to relationships, less so, but in general I put so little care into the interactions which definitely hurts my chances.

I'm like you too brother

 

[manfromitaly]

I’m extremely lazy with women. I think it’s just a lifetime of all the bs has burned me out with them. When I was on online dating I’d get tons of matches but too lazy to message them, or too lazy to write them back when they’d message me. I knew they’d never go anywhere and I’m not going to waste my time if I can’t get the outcome I want. I’ll never be outcome independent becsuse I’m not that way in any other aspect of my life and it’s served me well, not gonna be that way with women. I need results or I’ll quit.

Yes, I understand you, that's why I envy people who find the will to keep up with women, I don't have all this desire

 

[SargeMaximus]

I understand, but I think that in a certain sense you were in contact with women, maybe work? did you go out in the evening? For example, I have a job where there are no women and I haven't been out in the evening for a while, so it's difficult for me to get noticed

No I’m a homebody and use OLD