"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@biggoal has been banned....????... He needs to go to San Fran and pick up an Asian hottie cause Trump gonna ban travel from Asia soon...
 

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The first step is by believing you are worth it...something you obviously don't
How did you develop that confidence? I could only get it by working on my hair and fitness and clothes. The self improvement, made me feel like I was actually worth a damn.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.
Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of them
Good entertainment on the site though with those threads. I'll miss them.

The "HB9 49 y/o How to Keep Frame" and "What Workouts to Do on Home Gym" should be added to the hall of fame
 

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No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?
Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?

You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?

You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...


Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011


dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?

They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.


And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.


Ok.




 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?

You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?

You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...


Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011


dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?

They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.


And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.


Ok.




Oh I definitely remember the threads. Ironically I picked up lots of tips on what NOT to do from them. I can't believe those threads went on for so long

I knew it was coming, I just thought you guys were gonna handle it like Dave, where he had to cool off for 45 days.

Did it take longer to ban BigDave or BigGoal? I was surprised when I saw him banned lol.
 

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I already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
 

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This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.



She's decently cute, but not super. And she appears to have cougar arms.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That chick isn't post wall. Shes like 25.
I can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.
 

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I already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
I already gave up, if he did show up I would ignore, there was no point anymore in trying
 

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This is Gloria Trevisan, an Italian architect who moved to London with her boyfriend.

Both of them burned to death in Grenfell Tower.

Makeup aside, she was a solid 8 to me. Her guy looked nothing particularly extraordinary.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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