nicksaiz65
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Wait.... @Amante Silvestre BigGoal is gone???? On the same day as SoldierKing???
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?Yes. Both permanently.
We were afraid they were going to start multiplying.
How did you develop that confidence? I could only get it by working on my hair and fitness and clothes. The self improvement, made me feel like I was actually worth a damn.The first step is by believing you are worth it...something you obviously don't
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.Wait.... @Amante Silvestre BigGoal is gone???? On the same day as SoldierKing???
Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of themYes. Both permanently.
We were afraid they were going to start multiplying.
haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.
Good entertainment on the site though with those threads. I'll miss them.Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of them
Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh I definitely remember the threads. Ironically I picked up lots of tips on what NOT to do from them. I can't believe those threads went on for so longSecond chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?
You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?
You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011
dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?
They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.
And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.
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That's fair. I love what this site has done for my lifeSS is not for entertainment purposes.
It exists to give men the help they need.
Biggoal had no desire to get the help he needed.
She's decently cute, but not super. And she appears to have cougar arms.This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.That chick isn't post wall. Shes like 25.
I already gave up, if he did show up I would ignore, there was no point anymore in tryingI already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
Sun damageI can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.
Then other way around. What happened to the american dream Amante. That's all I would tell biggoal. You have to live it up. That's how you fix your problems.Ive been one for 8 years. Full custody.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.