"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How does a dude get a chick like THIS?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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@biggoal has been banned....????... He needs to go to San Fran and pick up an Asian hottie cause Trump gonna ban travel from Asia soon...
 

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The first step is by believing you are worth it...something you obviously don't
How did you develop that confidence? I could only get it by working on my hair and fitness and clothes. The self improvement, made me feel like I was actually worth a damn.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.
Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of them
Good entertainment on the site though with those threads. I'll miss them.

The "HB9 49 y/o How to Keep Frame" and "What Workouts to Do on Home Gym" should be added to the hall of fame
 

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No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?
Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?

You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?

You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...


Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011


dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?

They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.


And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.


Ok.




 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?

You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?

You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...


Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792

Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011


dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?

They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.


And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.


Ok.




Oh I definitely remember the threads. Ironically I picked up lots of tips on what NOT to do from them. I can't believe those threads went on for so long

I knew it was coming, I just thought you guys were gonna handle it like Dave, where he had to cool off for 45 days.

Did it take longer to ban BigDave or BigGoal? I was surprised when I saw him banned lol.
 

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I already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
 

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This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.



She's decently cute, but not super. And she appears to have cougar arms.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That chick isn't post wall. Shes like 25.
I can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.
 

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I already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
I already gave up, if he did show up I would ignore, there was no point anymore in trying
 

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This is Gloria Trevisan, an Italian architect who moved to London with her boyfriend.

Both of them burned to death in Grenfell Tower.

Makeup aside, she was a solid 8 to me. Her guy looked nothing particularly extraordinary.
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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