nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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Wait.... @Amante Silvestre BigGoal is gone???? On the same day as SoldierKing???
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?Yes. Both permanently.
We were afraid they were going to start multiplying.
How did you develop that confidence? I could only get it by working on my hair and fitness and clothes. The self improvement, made me feel like I was actually worth a damn.The first step is by believing you are worth it...something you obviously don't
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.Wait.... @Amante Silvestre BigGoal is gone???? On the same day as SoldierKing???
Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of themYes. Both permanently.
We were afraid they were going to start multiplying.
haha, I have put SoldierKing on ignoring on the same day he joins the site. Couldn't stand his BS.
Good entertainment on the site though with those threads. I'll miss them.Good stuff. I couldn't stand either of them
Second chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?No second chance for BigGoal or SoliderKing huh?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh I definitely remember the threads. Ironically I picked up lots of tips on what NOT to do from them. I can't believe those threads went on for so longSecond chance for Biggoal? Sir? Are YOU SERIOUS?
You're an ACTIVE member here. Did you somehow miss his hundreds of threads? Not see member after member give reply after reply after reply trying to help him? Did you somehow miss his 300+ reply threads?
You have ANY idea of how much flack us mods had to endure,insults we took,reports we had to sift through about the guy,and how many calls to ban him we resisted before we FINALLY decided it was time for him to go? Man....... can give you post after post after post after post...
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716491
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716545
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716665
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716775
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2716792
Here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...own-on-old-whats-going-on.264540/post-2717011
dude.....I could go on and on. You notice anything about those examples I just gave?
They're all from just ONE of his threads....all from THE SAME thread. He has what seems like THOUSANDS of threads.....all just like that...all FULL of nothing but people trying to help him,and him either excusing away the advice,or just altogether ignoring it.
And you ask about giving him a "second" chance. Forget the previous MILLION chances,you want to go with #2.
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That's fair. I love what this site has done for my lifeSS is not for entertainment purposes.
It exists to give men the help they need.
Biggoal had no desire to get the help he needed.
She's decently cute, but not super. And she appears to have cougar arms.This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.That chick isn't post wall. Shes like 25.
I already gave up, if he did show up I would ignore, there was no point anymore in tryingI already gave biggoal a temp ban a few months ago. Had to bring out the big guns at this point.
we really were extraordinarily patient with him, and we expended a lot of time and energy reaching out personally to try and help him.
He ignored the help.
Sun damageI can already tell that she's got cougar arms. If she's only 25, then she knows she is already in decline, and acted accordingly.
Then other way around. What happened to the american dream Amante. That's all I would tell biggoal. You have to live it up. That's how you fix your problems.Ive been one for 8 years. Full custody.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.