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  1. xavier_2000

    Mentors’ daughter?

    Legit this is a hella awkward situation for me. I have a business mentor who in my opinion is one of the most brilliant problem solvers I’ve ever met. Great man and his wife is like a second mom to me. I got lucky I met him as I got In the startup space and he runs a Think Tank. Anyways. Was...
  2. E

    How affectionate can I be towards my spinning plates?

    Can I call them by nicknames? Can I be passionate when I have sex or hook up with them? Can I maybe gift them something minimal on their birthdays? Also, how often should I talk to them? I usually dont text at all unless it is to set up a hang out but still want to know if maybe talking to...
  3. W

    Tried dating my ex-wifes best friend with her permission, now idk what to do..

    I've been reading the rational male and so much stuff is connecting for me but I'm looking for some feedback/mentorship on a situation I'm in. I'll be as brief as possible. Started seeing a girl 4 months ago basically every day. Have known her for like 13 years and we have been friends the...
  4. Aurora Demon

    Can you change your username? (If so, how?)

    I submitted a help ticket but didn't get a reply yet. I'm about to travel for a week and may not see it. I hope this isn't against the rules, but I didn't see anything about this topic. Worst case scenario, I get banned, and remake an account with the name I want. (jk lol) Please help...
  5. G

    How can I tell if a girl that is outgoing likes me?

    So, i've been hanging out with this girl from a town 15 miles from my home. I met her first day of training on a new job, she was also a trainee. I was working up to ask her if she wanted to go to the festival and she said "if you're asking me to go then its a yes". The whole time we've been...
  6. TheBalalaikaMan

    Any advice for a painfully average guy?

    Hey guys. It's me. The Balalaika Man. I'm new here and stuff. I'll try to avoid using the word 'I' too much, without writing out my whole life story too. But there are a few things about me that need to be said. Well first off, turned 18 about six months back. Studying mechanical engineering...
  7. E

    Help me schedule my training

    Hi , I´ve decided to take my gym training serious but I have no idea of what kind of workouts/excercises I should do , I´m going to the gym 5 days a week , so do u guys have any sugestions on what splits and sets should I try?. Let my know what you would recommend. Thanks in advance.
  8. GeezerBub

    So ummm...Not so sure anymore.

    Hello peopulz... So tomorrow I'm to meet someone I've been chatting with on OKC with for a bit and all is well until she sends me the following... "Wait, yeah, no there's no way my anxiety is chill with meeting another stranger. If we do meet, I'd like to at least not have to pretend to be...
  9. M

    I want to get back so bad

    My ex and i broke up 2 months ago but for a month i begged for her to come back. After that, i stopped contacting her for like 3 weeks and posted on social media how i was not bugged by our break up. I went out, met new friends, went to the gym, etc. We met a week ago because of our friend. We...
  10. J

    What Should I Do?

    Hello, First of all my name is Jack and I'm thankful that you've taken the time to read this. I'll get straight into it. I'm 21. And in May my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Unfortunately, due to feminized conditioning through being raised by a single mother, I latched on to the...
  11. N


    let's start the tale , My dad is Asian and My mother black . ' Dark ' despite being fair at birth i am dark too - because she made me ? how by using oil and tanning me all these years , for that i had to face racism growing up in Asian society and developing an inferiority complex - that's a...
  12. A

    She said I have to earn her kiss?

    So I have been out with this girls and everytime I tried to kiss her she says “you have to earn that” I thought it was her playing hard to get but she invites me to her apt and it was raining so I had to spend the night and she tells me to get in bed with her, but I didn’t try anything sexual...
  13. A

    Need urgent advice for a chick

    Hey guy, first time posting here. So i need some advice about a cheek, iv been following corey waynes stuff for many years and doc love stuff not so much just recently i came across his work, i booked a session with him as well. Apart from that im trying to perfect my game, but this current...
  14. GeezerBub

    OkCupid sucks...But I'm low on options

    I live in the primary immigration of the city of Toronto. So basically, "Chinatown" on steroids. So there are VERY few people of my kind for at least a good 50km. And people here are strictly community based. The Chinese are seen chilling with strictly other Chinese people. Same with East...
  15. L

    I seek a female version of "PUA" - things that can influence relationships to become better.

    Hello PUA members! I am a new member on this forum. Female. Got fascinated by PUA because my brother by accident discovered trolling as an arrogant guy turned on women and ever since had a lot of fun gaming women online. Improved his skill by testing and later PUA forums. I played a fake PUA...
  16. B

    Which girl should I go for?

    I'll try to make a long story short. Basically, I've liked this girl for about two weeks (We're in high school). At first, I was really pressed to get her attention and talked to her. Then I re-read some of the Don Juan bible and I got back to my senses and stop caring as much, but nonetheless...
  17. J

    Things just died out (Help)

    Good news, I approached my crush in school and got her number. We texted for a bit, than next thing you know she hasn't replied to my last text that I sent 2 days prior to posting this. Don't worry I didn't double text or triple text her for not replying (used to do this when I was super AFC)...
  18. J

    How do you slide into DM`S on IG?

    As title states, how do you slide into the Dm of a chick? We both follow each other since she found me on her recommended on instagram and brought up the fact that I have, what she thought a girls name on my bio in class to me. (was really the name of the song " Jasmine-jai paul" Backstory...
  19. J

    What to do?

    So I've been sitting back in the shadows of my high school halls and just stay watching, observing. And God dang there are some fine specimens that catch my eye. And I would love to hit it off with these chick's, But the Thing is, I don't really know what to say/do since they're/ I'm either: 1...
  20. J

    Best advice for a High School Senior?

    Hello I'm new to SS, well not really, I've been browsing the forums as a guest (created an account yesterday or so) since the beginning of this year and this forum is amazing I've learned so much. I've read the DJ Bible and a plethora of other DJ Tips/discussions as well. About Me: I'm a...