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  1. Michael Chief

    LR: Leveraging her crush for SNL

    I was originally not going to write about this because it seemed like just a simple SNL ONS, but upon further reflection I realized that there might not be a lot of LRs that demonstrate one of the key themes here. I was hanging out at one of my favorite bars with a casual atmosphere. It was a...
  2. Michael Chief

    LR: Party Planning and Cooperative Men

    I don't always write FRs/LRs, but when I do, it's to highlight certain concepts or techniques. This happened a few months ago. Leadership and community building. These are important things that will make you more attractive, and will open a lot of doors for you. One day, a friend and I decided...
  3. E

    Peruano Report: Valeria [1]

    I met a girl at the gym and we had a gym date two days later. During the date, the girl would hug me and press her body against mine. She mentioned her legs frequently and would press her buttocks and chest against me when I helped her with squats and other exercises. I allowed these moments...
  4. reality250

    My way Austria (Vienna) to be a superior man..

    Briefly about me: am 32 (Kurdish descent and hardcase) and have a child. Game since 2019, since summer 2022 really on. For about a month I was out with a few WIngs from a Vienna WhatsApp group (Maverick) with a few... the experience showed me, however, that it is better to go out alone. To be...
  5. Aurora Demon

    Kaleidoscope Journey To Mastery.

    Kaleidoscope Journey To Mastery. Hopefully this is okay to post, every other forum I've been on this is okay. This is a journal for my quest towards Mastery of Seduction and my progress and field reports and such. I'm going to post a few old ones, and epiphanies. Copying and pasting the...
  6. E

    FR: What was she thinking

    A little background story: I was meeting this girl for about 7 months. I'm 34 she is 25. She asked me about my age few times but I treated it as a sh1t test and joked that I'm much older. So at some point she thought she knew the answer and said that I'm 28 (many chicks says that. I'm not sure...
  7. R

    Field Report #9: Date on rooftop bar with cute indian girl

    Hi there my dear brothers, So this is my ninth FR here on Sosuave, I have been here for eons....but I still have a lot to learn about women. 1) The Girl 22 year old indian college student (but looks a lot younger) Shes exactly my type -->> very cute not your typical north american girl...
  8. GoodOne123

    What happened?

    Last night I went to the club again. Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl. The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty. As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with...
  9. Game0ver

    Help me to eradicate my last piece of beta in me

    Hi everyone! This is my first post on the forum, although I've already seen several discussion as a spectator. With the following, my intent is to ask you for help to defeat the last and most painful beta-behavior that's still rooted within myself. Ready? Let's go. Problem: I'm not used to...
  10. BeTheChange

    [MUST READ] SMASHED MY PERSONAL BEST – 7 days, 5 dates, 4 lays. Here’s what I learned

    Quick caveat. I’m on gardening leave until January, when I start my new role. This week I spent my days in the gym, cooking, and reading the Rational Male and Irwin Shaw novels (cheers for the recommend on that one @fastlife. Great read) This has afforded me the luxury of time. What I liked...
  11. E

    Field Report: Brazilian women refuse to talk instantly

    Some time a go when I was in the bar I approached Brazilian woman (I suspect she was a student or was on a trip). I started talking to her in my language. She did not understand and asked to speak english. I started to speak english, a bit to fast so she asked me, after a while, to speak slower...
  12. T

    Thunder_god's adventures in Europe Part II

    It's time to return back to Europe! After my trip to Europe last year, it really opened my eyes on what I was really missing out on being stuck here in the feminist capital of North America. I knew I had to go back and made a promise to myself that I would, so here I am, about to get on a plane...
  13. K

    Field Report - Slow Playing a 10

    Feel like I may have missed my best opportunity with a 10 (physically and personality) that I recently met. Not your standard situation so I'd like to get input. (Sorry if too many details) Met this 10 in a weekly casual sports league. I'm around average looking but I'm athletic. Difficult to...
  14. B

    FR: Not getting butt hurt leads to a lay

    Had a second date planned with this woman I met, about 3 weeks had went between this date and our first date due to schedule conflicts that couldn't be resolved, and her being lower on my pecking order than a few other women I am banging. Supposed to have met up Saturday night, I get there at...
  15. B

    FR: This is why you never eject early...lay report

    OK guys...I have to say I'm really proud of how I turned the situation around last night...went on a first date with a very pretty Asian woman last night 7.5-8 depending on what she has on...we met halfway as she lived 30 minutes from me, wasn't a great selection of places to meet so I chose a...
  16. B

    FR: Lied about age, told her not interested in dating, then asked to be FWB...

    Went out with a HB 6.5, maybe a 7 if she gets dressed up...decent body, nice rack...cute face...she tells me she works a lot and nobody ever actually wants to meet, they only chat with her, and the last time she was in a real relationship was 6 years ago(aka in need of c0ck) Date was going...
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