FR: Not getting butt hurt leads to a lay

[BackInTheGame78]

Had a second date planned with this woman I met, about 3 weeks had went between this date and our first date due to schedule conflicts that couldn't be resolved, and her being lower on my pecking order than a few other women I am banging.

Supposed to have met up Saturday night, I get there at 9pm, and let her know to let me know when she gets here...nothing...waited about 15 minutes and still nothing so I say Fvck it, grab a drink, flirt with the bartender for a few minutes and bounce. About 10 I shoot her a text that said "Thank you for letting me know you are a low quality person earlier rather than later." And proceeded to delete her number...about 45 minutes later I get a text with her freaking out saying she laid down to take a nap and just woke up, that she isn't like that and she is really sorry and that we can meet now if I'm still up. She also said she was really looking forward to seeing me. I was like w/e and let it sit.

Next day I send her a text around 3pm saying that if she wanted to make it up to me she could cook me dinner one night next week(she is a chef). She replied definitely and we set it up for yesterday. Long story short, I go over she has a freaking 5 course meal cooked(it was phenomenal btw), wine, candles lit, fancy settings out and we ate, talked, watched a movie for about 20 minutes and then she practically raped me, and then I punished her in the bedroom for what happened for about 3 hours and made her swallow 3 loads and suck every drop out. I also found out she gives the most amazing bl0wjobs/handjobs I've ever gotten...porn star quality...

Bottom line is none of this would have happened if I acted all butt hurt over what happened. When I thanked her for letting me know the type of person she was, I really meant it. No point wasting time with people like that.

Guess she must have felt bad...she texted me she is really sore today but it was definitely worth it and wants a rematch next week...

 

[cola]

Had a second date planned with this woman I met, about 3 weeks had went between this date and our first date due to schedule conflicts that couldn't be resolved, and her being lower on my pecking order than a few other women I am banging.

Supposed to have met up Saturday night, I get there at 9pm, and let her know to let me know when she gets here...nothing...waited about 15 minutes and still nothing so I say Fvck it, grab a drink, flirt with the bartender for a few minutes and bounce. About 10 I shoot her a text that said "Thank you for letting me know you are a low quality person earlier rather than later." And proceeded to delete her number...about 45 minutes later I get a text with her freaking out saying she laid down to take a nap and just woke up, that she isn't like that and she is really sorry and that we can meet now if I'm still up. She also said she was really looking forward to seeing me. I was like w/e and let it sit.

Next day I send her a text around 3pm saying that if she wanted to make it up to me she could cook me dinner one night next week(she is a chef). She replied definitely and we set it up for yesterday. Long story short, I go over she has a freaking 5 course meal cooked(it was phenomenal btw), wine, candles lit, fancy settings out and we ate, talked, watched a movie for about 20 minutes and then she practically raped me, and then I punished her in the bedroom for what happened for about 3 hours and made her swallow 3 loads and suck every drop out. I also found out she gives the most amazing bl0wjobs/handjobs I've ever gotten...porn star quality...

Bottom line is none of this would have happened if I acted all butt hurt over what happened. When I thanked her for letting me know the type of person she was, I really meant it. No point wasting time with people like that.

Guess she must have felt bad...she texted me she is really sore today but it was definitely worth it and wants a rematch next week...

Nice. So did she move up in the pecking order any? Or still low tier

 

[EyeBRollin]

You're getting better, but you're still making some subtle mistakes.

"Thank you for letting me know you are a low quality person earlier rather than later." And proceeded to delete her number...about 45 minutes later I get a text with her freaking out saying she laid down to take a nap and just woke up, that she isn't like that and she is really sorry and that we can meet now if I'm still up. She also said she was really looking forward to seeing me. I was like w/e and let it sit.

That text was completely unnecessary. I hate to break it to you pal, but women that have high interest don't accidentally take naps too long before dates.

You made a nice play by responding the next day to her text and telling her to make it up to you. Good work there. Textbook.

Never show your emotion through text. She has to decipher your every word. Trust me, in your absence she will scroll through your messages and think of 874 different interpretations of what your text meant. That is how she falls in love.

I wouldn't have said anything when she never showed up. I would have just got the bartender's number, than made her come to my house to **** me the next 2-3 dates. Women who stand you up are low quality. That's classless and you should have zero tolerance for that. You got the lay, but she still may think her behavior is okay in the future. You still went to her, when she should have been the one coming to you. She ****ed up.

 

[logicallefty]

I agree with @EyeBRollin . Your text about being low quality was too much but you handled the rest like a boss.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You got the lay, but she still may think her behavior is okay in the future. You still went to her, when she should have been the one coming to you. She ****ed up.

Hell no...I don't let ANY random chick know where I live until I know more about them...one too many situations for my liking from that...

 

[SDDJ]

I'm confused. All the guys here are saying he made a mistake by calling her a low quality person yet he banged her the next day.

I'm 100% sure that if he didn't call her out they wouldn't have met up later.

Was there something better he could have said?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'm confused. All the guys here are saying he made a mistake by calling her a low quality person yet he banged her the next day.

I'm 100% sure that if he didn't call her out they wouldn't have met up later.

Was there something better he could have said?

Shrug, I've gotten laid 3 times after a situation where the chick cancelled or didn't show up by saying something similar out of about 15 times. I've gotten laid ZERO times by doing what they suggested out of maybe 25 or 30. So regardless of what it "looks" like, it works for me.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I'm confused. All the guys here are saying he made a mistake by calling her a low quality person yet he banged her the next day.

I'm 100% sure that if he didn't call her out they wouldn't have met up later.

Was there something better he could have said?

Yes, nothing.

"Calling out" is never required.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I figure it worked for you. You treated it like a **** test, and got sex and a meal out of it.

Great work, even if it wasnt the response recommended by most people on this board.

 

[CMNILS87]

You're getting better, but you're still making some subtle mistakes.



That text was completely unnecessary. I hate to break it to you pal, but women that have high interest don't accidentally take naps too long before dates.

You made a nice play by responding the next day to her text and telling her to make it up to you. Good work there. Textbook.

Never show your emotion through text. She has to decipher your every word. Trust me, in your absence she will scroll through your messages and think of 874 different interpretations of what your text meant. That is how she falls in love.

I wouldn't have said anything when she never showed up. I would have just got the bartender's number, than made her come to my house to **** me the next 2-3 dates. Women who stand you up are low quality. That's classless and you should have zero tolerance for that. You got the lay, but she still may think her behavior is okay in the future. You still went to her, when she should have been the one coming to you. She ****ed up.

I think the dominance of the you're gonna make it up to me text offset the earlier butt hurt one. I think the same effect would've happened even if you didn't reply and let her hampster spin cause she slept through a nap, freaks out, apologizes and you go for the redirect. In the other cases, I doubt the chicks had super high interest like this gal...

Most chicks who go on dates with men they're super interested in don't take naps. It's the opposite, they're usually popping Xanax pills and pacing around the apartment for 3 hours

 

[Slash Dolo]

It sounds to me like the sleeping excuse was legit and she liked you a lot from the start to cook that meal for you. Or she could be one of those chicks that lovedswhen you call her out on her bullsh*t like you did.

I agree with other posters here that the first text was unnecessary; I love the old reverse flake excuse, after she no shows, text her something like "sorry I got caught up with something, won't be able to make it, catch ya some other time" 30 minutes after the time of the date and role reverse the f*ck out of her. It's amazing what a text like that can do.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lol, just rocked her ass again last night for about 3 hours...in the middle of her cvmming about 5 or 6 times in a row she was like "Oh my God...if I knew you could Fvck like this we would have fvcked on the first date..." I laughed then rewarded her with a cut blast down her throat...

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Lol, just rocked her ass again last night for about 3 hours...in the middle of her cvmming about 5 or 6 times in a row she was like "Oh my God...if I knew you could Fvck like this we would have fvcked on the first date..." I laughed then rewarded her with a cut blast down her throat...

Well, there is always THAT! lol
Nice work. It just goes to show that sometimes doing the wrong thing, according to DJ theory, followed by a very strong correct action, can still pay dividends. I know it may be girly of me but I love to call a beyotch out who pulls some ignorant crap like that. They are almost always surprised by it and your words will roll around in their heads for YEARS. That is a great outcome if there was no poonage to be had.