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manfromitaly

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Have you ever had problems penetrating? I didn't like the last two girls I had sex with, I wasn't attracted to them and at the moment of penetration I lost my erection, also because they had very narrow vaginas.

Let me start by saying that I decided to go out with them because they were looking for me.

I realize that it's important to choose to date girls you like.

I share a phrase in Italian that I read on social media recently:

In love, as in cooking, we must eat what we like and not what we get.
 

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I'd only be concerned about something like this if this happened regularly AND with women you had sexual attraction/interest in. It's the same reason why women won't climax or orgasm with a man they aren't really that attracted to and say the "sex was bad" or that there was no "chemistry" lol. Meanwhile, she has the night of her life with some guy that is everything she wants and then some lol.

Don't try to force stuff with women you aren't into, you are just wasting your time and hers. There's a guy I know that back in 2020 was in a relationship with a woman and he was complaining about having sex problems with her. I listened to him and during the conversation he basically said that he had a difficult time ejaculating and also getting hard with her. However, he did NOT have this issue with other women so I asked him if he just wasn't attracted to her. He gave some indirect answer about how he likes her but what I suspected was proven valid.
 

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Have you ever had problems penetrating? I didn't like the last two girls I had sex with, I wasn't attracted to them and at the moment of penetration I lost my erection, also because they had very narrow vaginas.

Let me start by saying that I decided to go out with them because they were looking for me.

I realize that it's important to choose to date girls you like.

I share a phrase in Italian that I read on social media recently:

In love, as in cooking, we must eat what we like and not what we get.
Feel you bro

It happened to me a couple of times and it was because I just did not liked them, despite them being average looking

it is better to just masturbate than to try to sleep with a sub par girl
 

manfromitaly

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I'd only be concerned about something like this if this happened regularly AND with women you had sexual attraction/interest in. It's the same reason why women won't climax or orgasm with a man they aren't really that attracted to and say the "sex was bad" or that there was no "chemistry" lol. Meanwhile, she has the night of her life with some guy that is everything she wants and then some lol.

Don't try to force stuff with women you aren't into, you are just wasting your time and hers. There's a guy I know that back in 2020 was in a relationship with a woman and he was complaining about having sex problems with her. I listened to him and during the conversation he basically said that he had a difficult time ejaculating and also getting hard with her. However, he did NOT have this issue with other women so I asked him if he just wasn't attracted to her. He gave some indirect answer about how he likes her but what I suspected was proven valid.
Luckily it happened to me a few times and with girls I didn't like and in rare cases like the latter where the vagina was very narrow, it felt like penetrating a wall lol (I have a fairly large penis and sometimes it's not very hard, but I've never had problems with women I liked) Yes, in fact it is a waste of time and you risk making a bad impression, especially in my case because I live in a not very big city and rumors could circulate, but I talked about it with them, and with some excuse they understood.
 

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Feel you bro

It happened to me a couple of times and it was because I just did not liked them, despite them being average looking

it is better to just masturbate than to try to sleep with a sub par girl
Yes, with girls I don't like I only get excited when they give me oral sex but at the moment of penetration I sometimes lose my erection
 

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If you can’t stay hard enough to penetrate you’re not that attracted to her. Do not **** her. Most women blame themselves regardless of their outward reaction.

Hell sometimes if I want to lock a chick down that I’m already nailing all the time, I ask them over and just hold her, I get her off and don’t penetrate her. It sends the hamster spinning and the whole “omg he really likes me!” sets in.
 

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Have you ever had problems penetrating? I didn't like the last two girls I had sex with, I wasn't attracted to them and at the moment of penetration I lost my erection, also because they had very narrow vaginas.

Let me start by saying that I decided to go out with them because they were looking for me.

I realize that it's important to choose to date girls you like.

I share a phrase in Italian that I read on social media recently:

In love, as in cooking, we must eat what we like and not what we get.
Not even when you're super horny? How's your p0rn consumption? How often do you watch p0rn snd/or jack off per week?
 

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I think I've read in a few places male erectile disfunction Is at an all time high

It's because society is now over sexualised to the stage where nothing is left to the imagination add P*RN/ social media and your brain is too used too constantly seeing naked women perform sexual acts or semi naked women which isn't normal

Over the last 10-15 years the sexual marketplace has become hyper competitive ..... women and swipe apps have created an extremely hostile and difficult environment for men to navigate and it's resulted in a situation where men are kind of pushed too interact with certain types of women they probably have no real physical or emotional interest in

I think you just have to have a lot of self discipline cut the porn out , avoid and walk away from women your really not that bothered about (low hanging fruit) , and practice stoicism

Its hard work but eventually you'll run into a girl you actually want to sleep with and she will make your d1ck hard without second thought

I think some women can definitely recognise when a man is sexually restrained and its exciting for her then becuase she gets to exercise her femininity by trying to seduce you

it allows the feminine / masculine energy in the correct polarity which will make sex better for both of you
 

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Not even when you're super horny? How's your p0rn consumption? How often do you watch p0rn snd/or jack off per week?
Yes, I know this could be a problem, 2 or 3 times a week, like 1 a week, it depends. But I have no problems with the girls I like
 

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I think I've read in a few places male erectile disfunction Is at an all time high

It's because society is now over sexualised to the stage where nothing is left to the imagination add P*RN/ social media and your brain is too used too constantly seeing naked women perform sexual acts or semi naked women which isn't normal

Over the last 10-15 years the sexual marketplace has become hyper competitive ..... women and swipe apps have created an extremely hostile and difficult environment for men to navigate and it's resulted in a situation where men are kind of pushed too interact with certain types of women they probably have no real physical or emotional interest in

I think you just have to have a lot of self discipline cut the porn out , avoid and walk away from women your really not that bothered about (low hanging fruit) , and practice stoicism

Its hard work but eventually you'll run into a girl you actually want to sleep with and she will make your d1ck hard without second thought

I think some women can definitely recognise when a man is sexually restrained and its exciting for her then becuase she gets to exercise her femininity by trying to seduce you

it allows the feminine / masculine energy in the correct polarity which will make sex better for both of you
I totally agree, I read something like this too. The best thing is to avoid watching porn and only date girls you like
 

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Yes, I know this could be a problem, 2 or 3 times a week, like 1 a week, it depends. But I have no problems with the girls I like
Stop watching p0rn and you'll see you'll want to stick it in whatever hole you find, its liberating knowing you can make your c0ck cvm whenever you want if you're horny.
 
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