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  1. G

    Worth pursuing?

    Hello guys! I am new here and need some dating advice. I am 20 years old if it matters and dont have many experience with girls and dating. So I was interested in a friend of my cousin and she was giving me signs that she was too. Last week on a party I made a move and kissed her. On wednesday...
  2. T

    Is she playing hard to get?

    Hello guys! I'm new here and I wanted to ask for some advice. Last month I met this beautiful girl in college and I managed to get her number. I texted her the day after and after some small talk I got a date with her, it was pretty easy actually, she accepted on my first try, she seemed...
  3. B

    Got her on a date. Now what?

    I'm in high school btw. There's this girl that I've been interested in for a few months now. But we never actually talked. It's a story behind that, but she just got out of a relationship. I got her number two weeks ago and talked my way into having a date at the carnival this Saturday. I don't...
  4. B

    Want to virtually eliminate flaking? Try this...

    There is one piece of advice that I have tried and tried to follow but have had mediocre at best results while doing it. And that is "going ghost" from the time you set the date until the actual date. I know this is some "sacred" ploy according to many on here, but I'm here to tell you it's a...
  5. pyros

    girl not asking about exclusivity/LTR

    I've been seing this 22 years old girl for the last six months or so (I am 31). I do enjoy her company and the sex is good and wild, but because of several things about her life I dont see her as LTR material. Anyway, the thing that bugs me a little is that in these six months she hasn't asked...
  6. H

    Best way to go about asking for a date the second time?

    Met this girl, to my she's an easy 10/10 because she is my exact type, and got her snapchat at a party. I know she thinks I'm cute and will like me much more but I still haven't gotten a first date in order to build more attraction. She lives about an hour from me at a local university and I...
  7. A

    Date - but leave the country the next day!

    Hey all. I happen to be leaving the country for work on Monday for 6/7 months - perhaps back at Xmas however not definite. However, tonight got a message from match (that I had forgotten about) She'd been busy but now is on leave. We exchanged a few pleasantries - grabbed her number. I thought...
  8. I

    Being interesting on the first date

    Alright, so you've gotten a girl to go out, or hang out, with you.. But if you're anything like me, or like I used to be, you might have some problems with being interesting or different than other guys. I used to have some trouble with the conversation part - like if the girl didnt contribute a...
  9. pyros

    beta guy begging for a date

    So I was watching this tv show called First Date, and there was this super beta guy that just kept begging and begging. He complimented her many times, he said that she was the hottest girl he's ever been on a date with, he said that he was super lucky to have met her etc, etc; all this while...
  10. pyros

    Too honest girl...

    I've been on two dates with this 21 years old girl. And I dont know if I am too suspicious and/or picky but...because of what she's told me about her, I've discarded her as potential gf material. Besides, I dont understand why she has told me all these 'negative' details about her. In short...
  11. DiegoSantori

    Would it be crazy to fly to Mexico City for a woman?

    - Tired of Western women, like really tired - 2 1/2 months ago, I (25/male/German) started to chat on Instagram with a beautiful woman (26/female/Mexican) from Mexico City. I initiated the text convo. - Endless texting (she is very polite and nice but not needy), she gives me compliments, says...
  12. pyros

    texts before a date

    So, do you guys try to get to know a girl, just a bit, before you ask her out? or do you , for example, get her number one night, talk to her for 3 minutes (you get her name, age, and some random information about her), then some day you text her mainly to ask her out on a date? I say this...
  13. A

    Slow text response = low interest?

    Hello guys, this my first post here. Recently I met a girl at a party, chatted a bit and later added her on facebook. Asked her right away out and she agreed. It took her lots of time to reply to my messages though, so I assumed she wasn't very interested. The date itself seemed to be good...
  14. pyros

    interested girl, then nothing...

    I met this girl around 1.5 months ago while dancing salsa. Talked to her for 1 minute, got her number etc. A few days later I texted her and she seemed not very enthusiastic, giving me short answers etc, so I did not even ask her out. A month later she texted me out of the blue. This time she...
  15. P

    Getting flaked on all the time lately

    Well, the title says it all. Three girls flaked on me in a very short time period, so it can't be a coincidence. Well, some backstory is in order. I decided a few months back that I am tired of clubbing, drinking and that I wish to enter another relationship and been actively pursuing the idea...
  16. pyros

    girl takes two buses to come to see you

    Let's say you're dating a girl for less than two months. Everytime you have sex it has to be at your place and to go there she has to catch two buses and spend around 40 minutes. (neither you or she have a car). After you've had sex at around 02:00 am, she has to go back to her place, and...
  17. pyros

    fake alpha female

    I posted about this 19 years old chick before. Today we went on a first date and I noticed that she behaves in a very uncommon way. She tries to act 'alpha', but you can see she's trying too hard, I mean, she's avoiding to act like she would like to act and instead she's trying to be the...
  18. pyros

    dating girls way younger than yourself

    When I was 27 I dated a girl who was 20... One year ago I banged a girl who was 19 while I was 29... Now I have an incoming date with another girl who is 19 and I am now 30... In the following link you'll see a Master or a King, however you want to call him. The guy is 42 or 44 and the girl is...
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