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  1. N

    What do you make of this?

    I'm a 52yo guy, in great shape, most people say I look 45. Step 1 - Saturday: I chatted up a hotty at a cafe - she is mid to late 30s. She gave me her number. I asked her out the next day. She agreed. Despite being great weather she made it clear she wanted to meet in a cafe not walk in the...
  2. B

    Why should I give her my number instead of vice versa?

    This is sth. I read often here I don't really understand. When I meet girls for the first time, we get along well and I'd like to invite her why shouldn't I ask for her number and set up a date then? Taking initiative should be our modus operandi, shouldn't it? It makes sense giving her my...
  3. reality250

    How to escalate beside an open relationship, or do I think too much?

    My age 33 Her age : 33 I will meet her tomorrow for the first time, and she started asking everything about me, how old my kid is etc I did not tell her I am in an open relationship but she did only asked does your kid live with you, I answered yes. ? Idk. She asks me about everything in my...
  4. reality250

    Should I ever tell her about my kid and my Open Releationship?

    Hey guys, I will meet a 22-year-old one and I thought before we meet each other and I start building deep comfort (telling about myselft etc) should I be completely authentic and tell her about my life partner or not? What were your experiences?
  5. reality250


    1. my age 32 2. age of the woman 32 3. number of dates that have already taken place : 4, with 4 different HB's 4. stage of seduction get to know phase 5. description of the problem: I met her last week at the weekend, short small talk that she is looking for a drug, it was a techno night in...
  6. CollegeMan22

    Best Date Night Ideas for Under 21 Men?

    Hey guys. I'm at the point where I have a couple of girls interested in me, and I'm trying to plan good dates that make it easy to escalate. I'm thinking that dates in the evening will be best because women will be the most uninhibited and open when the sun goes down. But I can't do drinks...
  7. CollegeMan22

    Woman Keeps Texting and Calling Me to Ask Questions — How to Proceed?

    So I gamed this girl (HB 7.5) on Thursday at a Halloween party and got her number. She then invited me to another Halloween party last night, which I went to with her. We went with her HB5 best friend, who was also there when I met her. I did a lot of neg hits with HB7.5 and got in a lot of kino...
  8. CollegeMan22

    Girl Has Boyfriend — Do I Still Ask Her Out?

    I met this HB7 in my math class last week and gamed her this week. I joked with her a lot about fitness and nutrition, which she is really into, and I made sure to get really close to her when she had problems with math problems. No kino, but I tried to increase our proximity and show confidence...
  9. R

    Are afternoon dates a bad idea?

    Hi guys, I’ve been reflecting on the time of dates. I like afternoon dates as I can spend decent time with a girl without going to bed at 1a, however they seem to be less effective than evening dates: less sexual vibe, at some point both of us need to have dinner but do not necessarily want to...
  10. V

    Using "dating" as code for sex

    I disagree with @pyros. You're not the first person to say it but I vehemently disagree with it every time I hear it. I don't care if it's the way people talk. It contradicts the rules of the English language. If you go on more than one date with someone, you are literally dating them. It's not...
  11. R

    Asking for help on a situation!

    Hey guys, I would be grateful for any thoughts on this situation! Me: 23 year old good looking dude Her: cute 20 year old girl The situation is: A woman was giving me choosing signals, so I asked her out for a date the next day. The date went great, dancing, laughing, kissing...she was really...
  12. GoodOne123

    Help this is messing with my head

    Hey guys, A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but...
  13. D

    Next date with her friends?!

    Hey, I have a woman in my life which I initially saw as a friend. After some talking and nonsense games we started doing fun activities together like once a month for about 4 months. Last time I tried to initiate some physical contact which she neither declined nor returned. This time I was...
  14. D

    Can't pass online to bed having a lot of women

    Hi! Im talking about Tinder & Facebook. I know it's different than real life, but it worked years ago. Now i returned, more on Tinder, and having women interested in me, i'm direct to date and after a couple talking, nothing. They don't return more messages until i return to text her. I know...
  15. GoodOne123

    Did I do the right thing?

    Basically I met a girl 2 weeks ago at a club. I fingered her and got her number. We slept with eachother a few days later when we met in the club again. It was Valentine's day recently. I didn't text her or take her out or anything. I didnt see the point since we aren't close like that. Now...
  16. G

    Just asked a girl out for tonight but she hasn't opened my message

    Ok so Im going to a club tonight now that I just turned 21. My teacher is playing with his band at this club with a bowling alley. She hasnt replied on snap, Should I just call her. Honestly Im shy on the phone
  17. GoodOne123

    Messed with a girl who is a friend

    I have a girl who is a friend. We mainly were party buddies, and I was happy to keep her around because I got invited to some cool parties. I never saw her as a potential plate or gf, just because she always had a bf. She recently broke up with him though, and is messing around with other...
  18. GoodOne123

    I Wish I Started Earlier

    Recently I went out. This was a club that caters more to college students. I recently turned 24 so I was a bit older than lots of the girls there. But I do look younger, like 20-21. I had a good time. One girl started undressing me in the middle of the club, and feeling me up. A second...
  19. G

    Worth pursuing?

    Hello guys! I am new here and need some dating advice. I am 20 years old if it matters and dont have many experience with girls and dating. So I was interested in a friend of my cousin and she was giving me signs that she was too. Last week on a party I made a move and kissed her. On wednesday...
  20. T

    Is she playing hard to get?

    Hello guys! I'm new here and I wanted to ask for some advice. Last month I met this beautiful girl in college and I managed to get her number. I texted her the day after and after some small talk I got a date with her, it was pretty easy actually, she accepted on my first try, she seemed...