girl takes two buses to come to see you

[pyros]

Let's say you're dating a girl for less than two months. Everytime you have sex it has to be at your place and to go there she has to catch two buses and spend around 40 minutes. (neither you or she have a car).

After you've had sex at around 02:00 am, she has to go back to her place, and again, catch two buses.
Would you go with her all the way back to her place everytime just to make sure she gets there and has no trouble?
I mean, she's a cute 23 years old chick...so...
would you go with her (by bus)?
or would you just say bye-bye?

 

[Maximus Rex]

I'd put her ass on the bus and go about my business.

 

[dustmuffin]

Let her sleep over. Easier on you both

 

[El Payaso]

I would let her sleep over and go home in the morning. Bus at 2 am is kinda bad.

 

[Bingo-Player]

do you not have taxi's in your country ? :/

 

[pyros]

Thanks for the 'replies'.

1 We usually hang out at around 21:00 so when we're done its around 01:00, 2:00, or 03:00'.
2 She's not paying for a taxi. Me neither.
3 She cannot sleep over cause I share the room a friend.

I think if I dont walk her to her place (by bus) she's not gonna take four buses again and again...

 

[Alvafe]

so you want to go with her for fear of losing the little pon she provide?

if I was you I would at most wait with her on the first bus, and nothing else, if she refuse to do that again well, there is always a closer woman around

 

[dustmuffin]

Thanks for the 'replies'.

1 We usually hang out at around 21:00 so when we're done its around 01:00, 2:00, or 03:00'.
2 She's not paying for a taxi. Me neither.
3 She cannot sleep over cause I share the room a friend.

I think if I dont walk her to her place (by bus) she's not gonna take four buses again and again...

So your friend is there while you f uck but she can't sleep over? Odd....

 

[Who Dares Win]

I was in a situation very similar to yours and despite having a car I didnt bother to pick her up at the bus station ,I simply told her to get a taxi and that I would have pay for it.

It was not some power grabbing or show off from me, I simply didnt realize the effort the she was doing to see me, her bus needed 1 hours from her place to mine.

Anyway what I would do in your place would be at least to share one of the two rides, it doesnt really matte much to you but it communicates that you care about her, if a girl bothers to get 4 buses in a day just to get fvcked from you thats the minimum you can do, be fair and reciprocate part of the effort.

Also not sure if you have any idea what a pain in the ass is today to find a decent girl to have sex with, so keep what you have and be fair with someone making an effort.

Its your own interest and fairness at the same time....also letting a cute girl alone in the bus at night, really?
She could find anyone from a rapist to a player with everything in the middle.

 

[pyros]

I was in a situation very similar to yours and despite having a car I didnt bother to pick her up at the bus station ,I simply told her to get a taxi and that I would have pay for it.

It was not some power grabbing or show off from me, I simply didnt realize the effort the she was doing to see me, her bus needed 1 hours from her place to mine.

Anyway what I would do in your place would be at least to share one of the two rides, it doesnt really matte much to you but it communicates that you care about her, if a girl bothers to get 4 buses in a day just to get fvcked from you thats the minimum you can do, be fair and reciprocate part of the effort.

Also not sure if you have any idea what a pain in the ass is today to find a decent girl to have sex with, so keep what you have and be fair with someone making an effort.

Its your own interest and fairness at the same time....also letting a cute girl alone in the bus at night, really?
She could find anyone from a rapist to a player with everything in the middle.

thanks, I was thinking more or less the same.

I really wonder how some of you guys "keep" girls around, or "keep" a relationship with them besides a few shags with that attitude.
"She stops seing me because she's tired of catching four buses everytime she wants to see me? she can go to hell. On to the next."

Jeez.

 

[Serenity]

My girlfriend has to catch 2 buses and it takes about the same time. I have a car, but she never expects a ride. We can only have sex at my place because she lives with her mother. If she can stay that late she sleeps over, if not it's because of work and she leaves much earlier anyways.

She's 24 and can look out for herself, the world isn't as dangerous as some make it out to be. I don't spend 1 hour and 20 minutes just to make sure she gets home safe, she gets home safe anyways.

I sometimes drive her home or pick her up, but it's really comfortable knowing she doesn't mind taking the bus. Besides it shows some effort to come see me, I like that. Today she took a taxi to get home because of the weather.

2 am is pretty late though, wouldn't it be possible to meet at your place earlier?

 

[Maximus Rex]

You have four viable solutions to your problem.

1) Improve your life situation and get a car.

2) Improve your life situation and get your own place.

3) Only holla chicks with their own car.

4) Only holla chicks with their own place.

I really wonder how some of you guys "keep" girls around, or "keep" a relationship with them besides a few shags with that attitude. "She stops seeing me because she's tired of catching four buses every time she wants to see me? she can go to hell. On to the next." Jeez.

It's called game and Rex suggests that you go out and get some. BTW, stop being such a

 

[Bingo-Player]

Thanks for the 'replies'.

1 We usually hang out at around 21:00 so when we're done its around 01:00, 2:00, or 03:00'.
2 She's not paying for a taxi. Me neither.
3 She cannot sleep over cause I share the room a friend.

I think if I dont walk her to her place (by bus) she's not gonna take four buses again and again...

I still must be missing something here because it seems to me your creating all these issues for yourself simply because you will not fork out what 20 bucks for a taxi !?!

or say you will give her half towards the fare if its bothering you that much ,

who the fvck gets busses home from a booty call lmfao

 

[ProDJ26]

You have four viable solutions to your problem.

1) Improve your life situation and get a car.

2) Improve your life situation and get your own place.

3) Only holla chicks with their own car.

4) Only holla chicks with their own place.

This

 

[Mot1veProgress]

Personally, whats wrong with this? I used to have a girl that would travel 2+ hours on public transportation to see me.. Nothing wrong. People here in Chicago use pub transportation all the time.. same with nyc.

I would drop her by the bus/train station when she left..

It worked out until i had a ride

 

[badboyjmm]

thanks, I was thinking more or less the same.

I really wonder how some of you guys "keep" girls around, or "keep" a relationship with them besides a few shags with that attitude.
"She stops seing me because she's tired of catching four buses everytime she wants to see me? she can go to hell. On to the next."

Jeez.

I think you are missing the point. The fact that she's putting the effort means that she's super interested. Now, as long as you put an effort to help out (paying for a cab, or dropping her home afterwards) it's all good. If a girl have it too easily, that's when the problem arises. It start with being content with putting the effort, to be entitled to have everything done for her, then she finds the arrangement boring...

But you aren't doing none and you could easily let her sleep in, not to sure why it is a problem ?

So what exactly is the problem with the attitude that I want a girl to do an effort ?