"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Date - but leave the country the next day!

attinu

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Hey all. I happen to be leaving the country for work on Monday for 6/7 months - perhaps back at Xmas however not definite.

However, tonight got a message from match (that I had forgotten about) She'd been busy but now is on leave. We exchanged a few pleasantries - grabbed her number. I thought **** it and arranged a date tomorrow eve(Sunday) She knows I'm leaving the country the next day and thinks I'm a little forward, but I just said "Hey, times short!"
Just wondering..... Should I just go all out aggressive? Little lacking on logistics but hey whats to lose right? I mean too pushy and she'll feel used maybe? However adds a strange time constraint....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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