GoodOne123
Senior Don Juan
Hey guys,
A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but she said she was uncomfortable doing that so soon, and she gave me her number instead.
We go on our first date a couple days later. She's all over me and making out with me, giving me compliments. Tells me she wants to see me again. I plan I second date a few days later.
On our second date we are making out again, shes touching me, and things going well as usual. I tell her to come back to my place, but she again says she feels uncomfortable doing it, she seemed pretty anxious about it. I told her its ok and she doesnt need to accept my invitation. She assured me that she was into me, and would be interested in coming back to mine on our next date.
Here's where it goes downhill. I text her 2 days later about meeting up for our 3rd date on a friday. But she says she will get back to me because she might be busy. I told her to let me know. I wait for 3 whole days till she texts me on the Friday that she wants to spend time with me after all. I tell her that I have now made other plans, and would prefer to see her later on next week. She agrees and we arrange to see eachother the following Wednesday.
When I met up with her Wednesday she's not affectionate or touchy at all. It's was almost like she wasn't that into me anymore. I was my usuall self, confident, charming, and not afraid to escalate. She hardly even made out with me. It was pretty bizarre. Could it be that she is afraid of intimacy? And when I told her to come back to my place on the second date did it scare her off?
I try to text her a day later to make another date, but she then dumps me telling me she would rather be friends. I tell her that I am not interested in being friends, and wish her all the best. Im planning on going no contact.
Things about her that may be red flags:
Told me early on of her divorced parents since a kid.
Occasionally expressed hatred for her dad.
Militant feminist, loves talking about how men fck women over.
Out partying every week.
What is your take on this guys? Did I do anything wrong or is it her?
A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but she said she was uncomfortable doing that so soon, and she gave me her number instead.
We go on our first date a couple days later. She's all over me and making out with me, giving me compliments. Tells me she wants to see me again. I plan I second date a few days later.
On our second date we are making out again, shes touching me, and things going well as usual. I tell her to come back to my place, but she again says she feels uncomfortable doing it, she seemed pretty anxious about it. I told her its ok and she doesnt need to accept my invitation. She assured me that she was into me, and would be interested in coming back to mine on our next date.
Here's where it goes downhill. I text her 2 days later about meeting up for our 3rd date on a friday. But she says she will get back to me because she might be busy. I told her to let me know. I wait for 3 whole days till she texts me on the Friday that she wants to spend time with me after all. I tell her that I have now made other plans, and would prefer to see her later on next week. She agrees and we arrange to see eachother the following Wednesday.
When I met up with her Wednesday she's not affectionate or touchy at all. It's was almost like she wasn't that into me anymore. I was my usuall self, confident, charming, and not afraid to escalate. She hardly even made out with me. It was pretty bizarre. Could it be that she is afraid of intimacy? And when I told her to come back to my place on the second date did it scare her off?
I try to text her a day later to make another date, but she then dumps me telling me she would rather be friends. I tell her that I am not interested in being friends, and wish her all the best. Im planning on going no contact.
Things about her that may be red flags:
Told me early on of her divorced parents since a kid.
Occasionally expressed hatred for her dad.
Militant feminist, loves talking about how men fck women over.
Out partying every week.
What is your take on this guys? Did I do anything wrong or is it her?
