Should I ever tell her about my kid and my Open Releationship?

[reality250]

Hey guys,

I will meet a 22-year-old one and I thought before we meet each other and I start building deep comfort (telling about myselft etc) should I be completely authentic and tell her about my life partner or not?

What were your experiences?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You already asked the same question in the other thread and got answers. I mean you are bringing them home to your kid and wife so wouldn't you think it's kinda necessary?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Naw. Don’t tell her unless she specifically asks.

 

[reality250]

You already asked the same question in the other thread and got answers. I mean you are bringing them home to your kid and wife so wouldn't you think it's kinda necessary?

İ don't bring her home. That question (last week) was more about the frame.

Right now i asked about a specific situation which i will handle and get confident with.

Thanks

 

[reality250]

Naw. Don’t tell her unless she specifically asks.

And when she asks İ will just answer very smoothly:

Yes and we are in an open relationship and change the topic, so no big deal ...

 

[SW15]

İ don't bring her home. That question (last week) was more about the frame.

Right now i asked about a specific situation which i will handle and get confident with.

Thanks

Frame is everything. You don’t fix frame problems in a week.

You can say or do anything with the right frame. I would argue saying less about things is better than saying more.

 

[Barrister]

I am unfamiliar with your other thread - but considering you are in an open relationship with a child from that relationship, this sounds like it is just a fling with this 22 year old. Why say anything at all about anything else? I am guessing this is purely for sex. Just have fun with it and keep things light. If you start getting heavy with this 22 year old she likely bolts anyway.