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  1. B

    How to develop your alpha side?

    Rollo uses the phrase "Alpha ****s, Beta bucks." for the two sides of female hypergamy. Since I'm very young (20), it makes more sense to work on my "alpha" side, bc. girls my age are more attracted (or aroused as Rollo says it) to that than to a "good faithful provider". Now I don't wanna be...
  2. D

    How to transform

    I am a new member of this forum and the whole manosphere, discovered the red pill at 21 after being cheated on, for the past year I have been constantly improving myself physically, mentally and career wise but seem to have hit a roadblock now. After reading the Rational Male, I realised I've...
  3. Von

    Bring back the Male, China Alpha Male strategy

    China wants to bring back manly male Click on the URL article. China consider its ''male'' especially the ''youth'' to be too girly. They launching a program... to boost sport in school, bring back military models etc.
  4. Black Magic

    I Need an Alpha Mindset

    Hey all, first post. I'm new to Red Pill thanks to The Rational Male, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and other sources, and feel like I have a long road of recovery ahead. Backstory...been sober for a few years and almost a year ago joined another 12 step program for relationships. I have not...
  5. dbayraktar

    I am 22 and married but not happy. My wife is the 3rd and last girl in my life. Need help?

    Hi everyone. I am 22 years old and got married to a beautiful, hot girl. She is my wife. We got married 7 months ago. She is a good girl. But I am not happy. I love her but I don't feel like an strong, alpha man anymore. I was strong and a free man before my wife but now I feel like I got...
  6. Von

    LTR/GF reporting back to me that she's being ''hit'' and he's a ''creep''

    Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...
  7. Panther_Orb

    Hot girl playing jealousy plots - Help!

    How to deal with a popular girl? (who has a thing for me and the feeling is mutual). Almost everybody (new guys at her work) want to flirt with her, or date (and she knows it). Including better looking and richer guys. My prob is with the alpha male dudes out of those. I am not as Alpha as...
  8. Von

    How to Handle Girls with Daddy Issues ? Girl with Daddy Issues Thread

    I bet we all know girls with Daddy Issues. Let's manage / control the situation if it arise The Dad might be ''gone'' (absent - uninterested - inactive - dead) or might be present and active. The Dad might be a strong father or a weak father.... the father might have anger issue / violent...
  9. evan12

    Prince Harry, the alpha beta

    Today prince Harry got married from a divorced woman older than him by 3 years. if you argue she is celebrity, I would argue she is not your typical hot celebrity, in fact she has barley average look. Although he is officer in army , in today wedding he looked very beta. he looked like high...
  10. Von

    Birthday gift to LTR/GF

    Here's a thread to make a list of what you could do or give as a gift to your LTR/GF. I thought it would be fun to have a thread listing all possible ideas. (Give me and you guys ideas). My context: Almost 1 year of dating, birthday in May (taurus sign). We all know it depends on the girl...
  11. GoodOne123

    Arguments with family. Was I wrong?

    I currently live in my mother's house. I am doing this to save a bit of money before I move out. I contribute to bills and taxes already. But I do also give lifts with my car if I'm needed. Yesterday I gave a lift to my mother to a store. She said I should drive her back home from there...
  12. P

    To be a man...how do I make my base strong?

    I recently read "the book of pook" and discovered this forum, and have had a wonderful time till now. Got insights, figured out what I was doing wrong in life, how to handle specific situations etc. And I have noticed that I have found my own inner voice. But for any successful endavour in life...
  13. darksprezzatura

    Truths and Realisations

    "Dark, what do you mean by truths?" Truths which might sound distasteful to you. Truths which you've been running away and living your life as a lie. "But Dark, I am an alpha and I've had many girls. I get laid all the time. Check out my new model girlfriend. I know all these truths" Shh...
  14. darksprezzatura


    "Very few men are wise by their own counsel or learned by their own teachings, for he that was only taught by himself had a fool for a master" - Ben Johnson Social proof in simple terms is a man's social worth, that men follow him and women like him. In short, it means being a leader of men...
  15. Masculinity

    Tupac on being Blue Pill vs. Red Pill

    Tupac's perspective of women before and they burned him. It serves as ultimate proof that even a high-value male "alpha" with money, fame, and status, women will friend zone and walk over you, if you if you're an AFC, white knight or blue pill. Gentleman, stand up for yourselves and don't...
  16. darksprezzatura


    "This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes" - Morpheus From a young age...
  17. darksprezzatura

    Narcissus - Part I

    I was born and conditioned with dark triad traits. I didn't choose it. Many girls who date us call us players or toxic selfish jerks who break hearts. I'm not going to apologise for sleeping with lots of women. Today I'll tell you the problems we face and describe how debilitating these...
  18. darksprezzatura

    [IMPORTANT] Opinions and Improvement on game.

    Neo: A) APPROACH: The moment you see a girl you find attractive AND want to have sex with, walk upto her calmly, face her, look her in the eyes, standing firmly two feet away and hit an opener in a slow monotone voice. 1. Hey, looks like you are having a lot of fun. 2. Excuse me, is that a...
  19. darksprezzatura

    Dodging bullets. Become Neo. [IMPORTANT]

    To the DJs out here, lifelong AFCs, Alphas, Betas, Omegas and all the pals. Reading @bradd80 's post about toxic women aka the ones with daddy issues fit so well with respect to my ex, I thought I'd reinforce his post and add my two cents to every person in need of some help. As men the...
  20. P

    Why is she acting like if she doesn't like me

    Thanks for reading me! I met this girl almost 2 years ago thanks to my mom at her church (she has been visiting the Jehovah's Witness church in the last few years), and they had become very close friends. I came to US 3 years ago with my mother. The first year I lived alone, but now I've been...