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I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half, and for the most part, it's been amazing. However, she has taken a pair of 3-4 week vacations with her parents on the other side of the country in just the past couple of months because she feels confined in her own apartment during COVID...

This doesn't involve trying to get a girl, but it does involve dating, so I am hoping you could explain what's happening in my situation. I've been dating my gf for a year. My close friend has been dating his gf for 4 months. Early on when he and his gf were dating, he would text me regularly...

I'm in a sort-of odd situation, and need some relationship help. I've been dating a girl for over 6 months, and things have been great. She's a lot of fun and we've somehow avoided any drama. But here's where it gets interesting - she says we are in an exclusive relationship, but shies away from...

I was hooking up with a HB I've been dating last night. After we were finished and got out of bed, her jaw dropped - we learned she gave me two hickeys, one on either side of my neck. Despite my efforts to cover it up with concealer and raising the collar on my shirt, my coworkers quickly...

I posted last week about two girls I am talking to and how their recent behavior was puzzling. I'm more or less figuring it out. One of the girls returned to normalcy. The other one is why I'm making the post. Girl #1 I've been seeing for just over a month. Things are really good and we're...

A couple of months ago, there was a HB (let's name her "A") I was very interested in. We went out a couple of times, but ultimately she LJBF'd me and did so in no uncertain terms. We still get along well, but that may be a product of the fact we work together and hang out in the same social...

Based off your own experiences, what checkmarks needs to be checked before you and a HB talk about your relationship or becoming an exclusive couple? I ask because I'm at that crossroads now. I've been seeing a girl steadily over the past several weeks (we meet before the holidays, but she and...

A couple months back, a girl I had been out with a few times ended things and said how we're such close friends. It was a tough pill to swallow, but it happens. However, because we work in the same building, I still see her more than I would like. The two of us still get along well and things...

I went out with a HB a few weeks ago. We had a good time and have texted since, but both our schedules have gotten in the way of a second date. This week, she says she is free this weekend and proposes that we can either meet/go out: - Saturday night after I get off work (around 10pm), OR -...

I don't know which forum this fits best in, but assume work is akin to wealth and success. I'll keep this one fairly brief. I work in close quarters with many of my coworkers, and we all have varied schedules, which includes working weekends. We all seem to get along in the office, but I've come...

I've had a bad history when it comes to maintaining civil relationships after breakups, friend-zonings, etc. While I usually try to remain my usual self, the HB almost always changes behavior, distances herself and future interactions feel unnecessarily awkward. It's been a constant and...

I went out with a HB7 three times over the past couple of weeks. The first date she spent the night. The second date (weeknight) we played mini-golf and grabbed drinks. The third date started off well with dinner and drinks, but she then tells me her friend is meeting up because the friend is...

I began talking to a gorgeous HB 8.5 online this week. After a few days of back-and-forth, I proposed we get a bite to eat a few days down the road. No reply. I remember the thread posted recently with the Harvey Spector quote: and went on with my life. Sure enough, she texts me this evening...

About a month ago, my company hired a new employee at my position. The boss wants to promote me, but needs people who can do my current job before that can happen. The new employee has a good work ethic - he arrives on time, works hard, but is struggling to accomplish basic tasks. On days when I...

From what others have told me, the period between Christmas and Valentine's Day is a time of year when women are more active in trying to find a date or relationship. Even the online sites say they get the most new users during this period. In my case, the opposite is true. At the end of 2018...

I am attending a singles event with a couple of friends on New Year's Eve in the nearby city. There will be about 400 people at the bar where the event is being held. Is there any specific strategy for events like this besides hitting on every HB in sight?

A couple of months ago, I went out with a HB 7.5 once. We had a decent time and planned to meet again, but she flaked on the day of the date. I probably didn't handle it as nonchalantly as I could have, but it was what it was. We texted very briefly after that, but then we stopped. I didn't see...

The company I work at functions out of two locations. One project we complete each day becomes a collaboration between employees at my level from both branches. Because I am essentially the point person carrying carry out the final product, I do my best to ensure nothing falls through the...

I've been going on dates recently with HB's on dating apps, but none have gone past a couple of dates. One of the primary culprits has been my hectic work schedule (which I've described previously on the forum) - it's not like the HB's know me that well, so the connection eventually dissolves...

I have been going on several dates as of late, and everybody's have fun on the dates themselves. However, the good times don't last. I haven't been getting many second or third dates, and the implied blame from these girls is my work schedule. I work your typical five days a week, but the nature...