The LadyKiller
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2011
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I began talking to a gorgeous HB 8.5 online this week. After a few days of back-and-forth, I proposed we get a bite to eat a few days down the road. No reply. I remember the thread posted recently with the Harvey Spector quote:
and went on with my life. Sure enough, she texts me this evening asking what I'm up to. Because she never responded, I had already made plans to meet up with a friend at a bar 30 minutes away, where he lives. She said she was just hanging out at home, but "I could surprise you and come out." After me internally waffling over whether "just hanging out" was an invite to Netflix & chill (it wasn't), I put my foot down and said I'm going to the other town, if she comes out great, if not we can set something up for next week. No chance she was going to get ready and then drive 30 minutes to see a guy she's never met when she works early the next day. Or so I thought.
Close to 30 minutes later, she texts me she is on the way and it making the trip for me.
Guys' night out suddenly turned into date night when she showed up and my friend, seeing us together, texts me "Tell her I had an emergency, good luck on the date." So, my friend/wingman who we traveled to see was gone, and I had to change my mindset for the night in a matter of moments. While this wasn't exactly the venue I would take her out to on a first date - she doesn't drink and I was situated at a bar - I did my best. There was kino, and we later chatted with some older, out-of-town strangers who approached us and thought we looked like a "nice couple." Overall, this was far from how I like to set up a date - where I control the venue and where the night may take us - but it made for a story.
She expressed an interest in going out to dinner next week, but nothing is certain until the HB shows up. I've learned that many, many times before. Given the two days it took for her to respond (maybe waiting on another guy), I'm not expecting much. At the end of the day, I learned I need to be ready to date every time I go out. You just never know.
Close to 30 minutes later, she texts me she is on the way and it making the trip for me.
Guys' night out suddenly turned into date night when she showed up and my friend, seeing us together, texts me "Tell her I had an emergency, good luck on the date." So, my friend/wingman who we traveled to see was gone, and I had to change my mindset for the night in a matter of moments. While this wasn't exactly the venue I would take her out to on a first date - she doesn't drink and I was situated at a bar - I did my best. There was kino, and we later chatted with some older, out-of-town strangers who approached us and thought we looked like a "nice couple." Overall, this was far from how I like to set up a date - where I control the venue and where the night may take us - but it made for a story.She expressed an interest in going out to dinner next week, but nothing is certain until the HB shows up. I've learned that many, many times before. Given the two days it took for her to respond (maybe waiting on another guy), I'm not expecting much. At the end of the day, I learned I need to be ready to date every time I go out. You just never know.
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