Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight

[nicksaiz65]

Say "Look guy! I'm buying you a shot, you're gonna pound that biitch, and go over there and dance with her!"

Just like how females use alcohol as an excuse to fulfill their "slutty" desires, get him to use alcohol to fuel his bad game. Something to blame it on, to ease his ego.

Gotta be able to dance with her for sure…
Not being able to dance with her == Bad Game

 

[Mike32ct]

Props for at least trying to help the boyos out.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Wish us luck!

Wait a minute, aren’t you married?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Wait a minute, aren’t you married?

GF.
I’m not trying to pick up girls. Just help my buddy out.
hang out. Drink. Listen to music. Talk to people.

 

[Travel memoir21]

GF.
I’m not trying to pick up girls. Just help my buddy out.
hang out. Drink. Listen to music. Talk to people.

Lol...point taken.

How can you be an effective wing man? You give your buddy pointers, do you talk to the other girls he's with just to help him out? Lol being a wing man sounds fun. I should try it sometime, I always go solo.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Lol...point taken.

How can you be an effective wing man? You give your buddy pointers, do you talk to the other girls he's with just to help him out? Lol being a wing man sounds fun. I should try it sometime, I always go solo.

Like with the solo girl dancing by me. I’d have either tried to get him to dance/talk yo her. Or I would have and drawn him into the conversation and then fade.

 

[Gamisch]

Nobel effort, but I told you it won't work.

A wingman only makes sense when two man are on the same page. He should ask you to join him instead of the other way around.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!

That's too much too soon for him.

Walk around a bar/club. Go up to random groups (men and women) ask them if they're having a good night, clink your drinks with them, walk off... Go around to another group... Then sit down with the incel and just have fun, laugh, joke around.

If either of you have caught someone's eye, they'll come over. Take it from there.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Noisy clubs with dancing might be too overwhelming for him at this point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

He isn't ready for that.

You don't go from incel who probably has no social skills, hence why he is an incel, to a place where you need to have exceptional social skills and expect to succeed.

It was a good thought but he needs baby steps at this point.

 

[MatureDJ]

Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.

Well, what do you expect in SF?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well, what do you expect in SF?

Yeah. Par for the course.

 

[LARaiders85]

waste of time

 

[Hamurabimbi]

waste of time

Completely.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Completely.

I don't see it as a waste of time, if the attempt made you feel like you were doing good by your friend.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I don't see it as a waste of time, if the attempt made you feel like you were doing good by your friend.

I think his only hope is to Social Circle.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I think his only hope is to Social Circle.

If you love the guy, you should take him to a park or a wide area of people for a mini bootcamp and socialize.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you love the guy, you should take him to a park or a wide area of people for a mini bootcamp and socialize.

I have been trying to help this guy for years. Nothing works. I have one more idea though.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Wish us luck!

going to try again. I'm out of airspeed, altitude and ideas. Any suggestions?
We're going out in The City tonight.
Valencia St. Great place.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

going to try again. I'm out of airspeed, altitude and ideas. Any suggestions?
We're going out in The City tonight.
Valencia St. Great place.

He has to want to change and be willing to take action to do it. Nothing YOU do will matter until he wants it more than you do.