Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight

[Travel memoir21]

Wish us luck!

Wait a minute, aren’t you married?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Wait a minute, aren’t you married?

GF.
I’m not trying to pick up girls. Just help my buddy out.
hang out. Drink. Listen to music. Talk to people.

 

[Travel memoir21]

GF.
I’m not trying to pick up girls. Just help my buddy out.
hang out. Drink. Listen to music. Talk to people.

Lol...point taken.

How can you be an effective wing man? You give your buddy pointers, do you talk to the other girls he's with just to help him out? Lol being a wing man sounds fun. I should try it sometime, I always go solo.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Lol...point taken.

How can you be an effective wing man? You give your buddy pointers, do you talk to the other girls he's with just to help him out? Lol being a wing man sounds fun. I should try it sometime, I always go solo.

Like with the solo girl dancing by me. I’d have either tried to get him to dance/talk yo her. Or I would have and drawn him into the conversation and then fade.

 

[Gamisch]

Nobel effort, but I told you it won't work.

A wingman only makes sense when two man are on the same page. He should ask you to join him instead of the other way around.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!

That's too much too soon for him.

Walk around a bar/club. Go up to random groups (men and women) ask them if they're having a good night, clink your drinks with them, walk off... Go around to another group... Then sit down with the incel and just have fun, laugh, joke around.

If either of you have caught someone's eye, they'll come over. Take it from there.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Noisy clubs with dancing might be too overwhelming for him at this point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

He isn't ready for that.

You don't go from incel who probably has no social skills, hence why he is an incel, to a place where you need to have exceptional social skills and expect to succeed.

It was a good thought but he needs baby steps at this point.

 

[MatureDJ]

Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.

Well, what do you expect in SF?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well, what do you expect in SF?

Yeah. Par for the course.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

waste of time

Completely.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I don't see it as a waste of time, if the attempt made you feel like you were doing good by your friend.

I think his only hope is to Social Circle.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I think his only hope is to Social Circle.

If you love the guy, you should take him to a park or a wide area of people for a mini bootcamp and socialize.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you love the guy, you should take him to a park or a wide area of people for a mini bootcamp and socialize.

I have been trying to help this guy for years. Nothing works. I have one more idea though.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Wish us luck!

going to try again. I'm out of airspeed, altitude and ideas. Any suggestions?
We're going out in The City tonight.
Valencia St. Great place.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

going to try again. I'm out of airspeed, altitude and ideas. Any suggestions?
We're going out in The City tonight.
Valencia St. Great place.

He has to want to change and be willing to take action to do it. Nothing YOU do will matter until he wants it more than you do.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

He has to want to change and be willing to take action to do it. Nothing YOU do will matter until he wants it more than you do.

He sat facing the wall of the club. I met a girl. Shsred a drink & got her name while he stared off. Into space. .

 

[Gamisch]

He sat facing the wall of the club. I met a girl. Shsred a drink & got her name while he stared off. Into space. .

Yeah that's a shame really...I still like the effort you put into this.

Bigger underlying issues that we men dont communicate and talk about these problems. In war and love it's s every man for himself. Women are more understanding amongst each other, that's why we as men all know you might have to run game on her fatty friend as well. If your male friend catches a ONS , it's a handshake and see you tomorrow buddy!


Is there a bigger problem at play? Does he actually want to talk to women but for some reason is unable to do it? Recently broken up?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Ahh Valencia, my days of yore…

It wasn’t the shyte show it can be now in the late 90’s.

going to try again. I'm out of airspeed, altitude and ideas. Any suggestions?
We're going out in The City tonight.
Valencia St. Great place.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

You’re a good man for trying.

Have you considered talking to female friend and seeing if you can set something up for him with a friend? Like just someone that’ll agree to be talk to him and asses him from the female side? Just to get him some courage?

He sat facing the wall of the club. I met a girl. Shsred a drink & got her name while he stared off. Into space. .