Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Wish us luck!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hah good luck man, Marina? Geary? SOMA?
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Soma.
took a ride share Uber. Had a nice conversation with a cute, friendly co-rider. . Good start.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Par for the course
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
He doesn’t drino. She’s wiggling & shaking her A$$ in my face & smiling at me. But my MF friend is ignoring it.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
If I wrew single. I’d destroy her. Getting tempted as she kreps wiggling & smiling at me. Tried tobget my bud un here. But her refused.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Sad state of American men. No guy approached her and she hung out by me ()me larping as a single guy). If I wete single I’d have been on that like white on rice.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
SF tech dude.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Ding ding ding
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
1/2 the MF’s here are masked. Fvck SF.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Last call 1230. SF nightlife is crap. This wad a happening club pre-covid. So sad.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Bro vanished i
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
nicksaiz65
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What gave it away? Lmao
nicksaiz65
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Gotta be able to dance with her for sure…
Not being able to dance with her == Bad Game
Mike32ct
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Props for at least trying to help the boyos out.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.