"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)
- Thread starter cola
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
No, that's not what's wrong. I was remarking about this humorously but it is true that your discussion about cooking is hijacking the thread. You can always start a new one in AE.
please start a baking thtead RicktheToad. Then your recipe and OhsoF's can go there for quick lookup
It’s evolved from a fitness guide, to coaching biggoal to now a cookbook. Can’t wait to see what’s next.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Not technically. We were discussing nutrition and that is how we got to the recipe. I just answered some other posters, I didn't just through in the recipe.
What are you hoping for on the next topic? This is already 46 pages. I think you may now have the longest thread on SS. Congrats.
Ohso-Phresh
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Probably ‘what are the thoughts you think’ when you don’t feel like going to the gym or ‘how to stay motivated longterm’ or ‘how to overcome a crux or plateau in training’ would be good to discuss.
GeeMale
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dustmuffin
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You might have a little extra weight but your arms look pretty good.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
Lol wth man I noticed that. I'm a fat guy who lifts and I notice it's not hard to attract slim women so I always thought I wasn't fat to women even tho I knew I was. Someone else finally said it. I didn't believe my friend when he told me some chicks like fat guys I thought he was putting me down
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He was helping you. Your fat for out standards here. Nodody said you gotta be 7% bodyfat or less. But its not solid enough to cause attraction on its own. Something funny about "game" is it's spit with the mouthpiece. If they listen you get their imagination and get to trigger feelings. Arousal etc. But on Its own without a grade A mouthpiece that body won't make a female wet.
R.U.G.
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Just need to work on your diet. Cut the carbs, up the protein, and veggies and you'd drop the weight pretty fast naturally. Add CLA to your diet too and it will help buy the excess fat.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I like how I look in the 1st photo. These are both same event but camera angle somehow made me look a lot slimmer.2nd is I guess real time. I was 30+lbs less than (I gained muscle and fat since than). This was 2 years ago. The point is I think the 1st pic is ideally what I'd want to look like
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yea women will like your "type". You can be leaner in those pics but still as you stand it's enough to get it done.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
You're right women probably don't stare at me and think damn he's sexy I'm going to throw myself at him.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A few women will. There will be a set of women who like your "type"even if your heavier. But a hot bod obviously creates sexual desire. So in the first case they know they like a guy like you. They won't know they wanna fvck till you talk. In the second case they'll want to fvck off physical image alone.
GeeMale
Senior Don Juan
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The common example I give here to make it simple, is male strippers are a certain body size because it's where they get their attention at. Sized and built somewhere between a larger NFL point guard and a NFL d back. A atheletic look with abs and cuts. Makes them hot without opening your mouth.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.