Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cheeky_James

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Are u Paul Janka? Lmao - I love Paul Janka - he's my OG coach, the first guy I learned the game from. By the way, loving your thread. It's funny and well-written. I think the other dude was being too autistic/critical. I can see that u probably have good game based on ur writing.
thanks man. Appreciate that.
He’s an OG for sure :cool::up:
Nah, I’m like ‘Janka -lite’,
More like Medium, dark & Handsome.
5’10” tall ,but a decent face. 7/10
I studied all his stuff years ago tho, his books and also some video course /seminar course he did. Great stuff :up::up::up:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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here’s a tip- whenever you watch a video and the speaker takes a very long time to get to the point , (uses open loops at the start etc and then delays, and does a big build up etc) - this is classic sales and marketing format.
the speaker is conditioning you , pacing and leading , to bypass your critical factor.
I do hate it when people won't get to the point. Very aggravating. They might also do it to fill out their video, so they get more minutes viewed. Reminds me of a lot of PUA material I've read. They'll fill a whole chapter with babble just to make one point. Drives me crazy. You could write most PUA books on one page if you just cut to the chase. But then they wouldn't have a book to sell.
 

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I do hate it when people won't get to the point. Very aggravating. They might also do it to fill out their video, so they get more minutes viewed. Reminds me of a lot of PUA material I've read. They'll fill a whole chapter with babble just to make one point. Drives me crazy. You could write most PUA books on one page if you just cut to the chase. But then they wouldn't have a book to sell.
oh yeah. But it’s worse than just babble /filler.
There’s lotsa sneaky and covert marketing /influencing “tech” used in those videos and books.
NLP based stuff and conversational hypnosis based stuff ..in written form and spoken form on videos.
Took me years to see that.
That was after I took some courses in it myself.
Like most of the RSD big courses were packed with it. Those freaks were well trained up in that.

look out for phrases like
“ have you ever ..”
“ imagine a time when”
“With me, now”
“Deeper and deeper “
Etc etc
And also he use of Paradox/Paradoxial statements
(Mind bending language)

and if anyone is doing finger clicking / hand slapping in videos that’s a dead giveaway. Whoever they say before / after this is usually an embedded command or Anchoring. I can give an example and do a breakdown analysis if anyone is interested . << clicks fingers >>
 
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Update
Did a bit more practice of the laser eyes at the swimming pool yesterday. The girl at the entry desk was very cute and brown eyed . We had an intense exchange of EC for about 10 seconds on my walk up the counter , and further through the interaction as I bought the entry ticket.
Could have sworn I saw a smirk cross her face.
This is Good stuff !
It was not a pickup , but interesting to see the reaction at times. A flash of something in the eyes.

went up to my local cafe strip yesterday and just observed the crowd for a few hours. There were not many decent single ladies around.
The hottest I saw were 2 younger women waitresses at a fancy cafe I stopped on for coffee at . Both had very cute faces and big t1ts.
Although both also were upon further inspection quite doughy in the mid section.
They must be eating too many fancy croissants for free at the cafe :rofl::lol:

It was a shame for one especially, the blonde, who had an instgram Model blonde hair, sun kissed tan , lovely lips. gorgeous blue eyes and an excellent big rack (wowza)
With Her a$$ looking saggy , under the muffin-y mid section. Defs shouldn’t be showing that off with a short top imo.

upon my return home I realised I was not even dressed well (lol) in an old hoodie and jacket w crumped chinos.

Must remember to put on my pickup wear before going out anywhere and keep up the grooming, and be looking shmick.

At all times!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keep at it and maybe you'll graduate to this level


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I was just thinking “ did he post up the wrong scene? I don’t see any EC!” Haha.

I was thinking of this movie recently , the Michael Biehn characters monologue to Sarah Connor in the car;
“It can't be bargained with,
it can't be reasoned with.
It doesn't feel pity! Or remorse or fear ..
and it absolutely will not stop!... ever... until you are LAID !”

HES A PUA T-1000 MODEL !! :oops::D
 

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Tell her that you want to slip in your infiltration unit
 
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