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  1. tyingtheknot2018

    Where to buy the best suit for our wedding day?

    Two months from now I’ll be tying the knot with my Chinese girlfriend. I met her on an asian date tour some months ago. The wedding will take place in Shenzhen so I’m thinking about the best suit to wear on that day. But the thing is we might observe the traditional chinese way of marriage so...
  2. thewanderer2018

    I travel a lot and it affects my dating life

    I love traveling around the world. I have been to a lot of countries as I really travel a lot. It’s not really for work, it’s more like a passion for me. Because of this, I have a hard time looking for a serious girlfriend as I tend to get busy with my traveling plans, hopping from one tourist...
  3. GeezerBub

    OkCupid sucks...But I'm low on options

    I live in the primary immigration of the city of Toronto. So basically, "Chinatown" on steroids. So there are VERY few people of my kind for at least a good 50km. And people here are strictly community based. The Chinese are seen chilling with strictly other Chinese people. Same with East...
  4. GeezerBub

    Too much stuff to remember. Top 3 practices?

    I find in the category of advice for interaction with the creatures (women) there is simply far too much to take in. When I try to learn what makes these creatures tick the way I need, there's no way I can memorize and practice everything. It's overwhelming. But what I'm thinking of doing is...
  5. GeezerBub

    A crush on me....even me huh?

    I've come here so try and get advice on how to get the creatures (women) to hate me at least a little less. But more importantly, to pacify my intense hate for them. Especially since, even me, I've had some measure of interaction with them that were positive. My top interactions? They wanted...
  6. vince1992

    Is it too early to marry at the age of 25?

    I joined a foreign dating event last January, which I considered to be very satisfying. At first, I was really focused on getting married whenever I found that special girl. But that thinking never lasts, is it worth it to get married this early? Given that I’m still 25? We all need that one...
  7. mrwhite93

    Any experience with romance tours?

    I’ve been using online dating for 5 months now, I find pleasure with chatting and doing video calls with women around the globe. While looking for new sites to join with, I saw this matchmaking site which organizes foreign dating tours to places like China, Thailand, Philippines, and Colombia...
  8. A

    I’m lost right now. Need some advice

    It’s been a while since I’ve been on this site. I usually don’t worry about girls too much but I’m struggling right now. Let me give you a few details and then I can get into my problem. Me: 21, never had a gf, introverted, sometimes funny, smart, good looking. The girl I have been talking...
  9. S

    Is she scared to let me in or not interested?

    I work with this girl, and over the course of the past month we've been seeing each other a lot. She just moved into a new house and I've been there almost every day since. One day I got called into work and they didn't really need me so I went and sat with her we ended up going back to her...
  10. B

    Meeting someone from years ago

    Hey guy, to make a long story short, like 7 years ago when I was in Elementary there was this girl who was really nice and seeing her would just like lift your mood up cuz she was that good of a person. At least, that's how I saw her. We went to different schools, never heard from each other...
  11. R

    Need advice on this situation

    Random girl(HB7) i meet gave me her number and asked me a favour to which i agreed. she is cool talking on the phone (anything including sex) and when i asked her to meet me she just doesn't want to. Says has a boyfriend and just wants me to talk with her midnight ! ( which is not gonna happen)...
  12. darksprezzatura

    Need advice from a DJ with inner game.

    Long story short. 2-month fling with HB7. Successful insertion of d!ck. Encountered low interest (flakiness) Stayed low contact to observe from afar. Saw some red flags Lack of sexual options kept me from hard nexting for 2 more weeks before I dropped her just now. Solution: Deleted her...
  13. darksprezzatura

    Quick advice guys. Psychology experts only

    Maybe it's due to being a sociopath but one of the things which bothers me is paranoia. Today I scored for the first time with a girl on the fourth date. Immediately after sex I had this repulsion and disgust along with a paranoid feeling that she'd try to screw me over or try to lock me down...
  14. M

    She was thinking of me

    A female I had a thing with about two years ago put a status up and I replied to her in a private message. The first thing she says is, "I was just thinking of you this morning, how crazy!" She is in college 4 hours away, so we both agreed to just do our own thing and ended up losing touch for...
  15. darksprezzatura

    A tricky situation [Quick Advice please]

    Hey guys, I just need some advice to handle something I messed up with a girl gracefully. Background: She seems a little nutty with dyed hair and a feminist with a lot of orbiters and dread game. Plate status. Progress: Made out first time we met. Frisking and hot and heavy second time...
  16. Rxnxg

    Long distance relationship advince.

    Hello everyone, and sorry if this post shouldn't be here. I'm gonna give you today a case that might be a bit different of the ones you see here time to time. I'm 24 y/o and I was in a LDR with a 19 y/o girl for 1 year and half, then she dumped me around 3 months ago. We've been in no contact...
  17. GoodOne123

    Confused By Recent Experiences

    Following my previous thread, I have made this thread to share my recent experiences in going out at night and trying to improve my game. To summarise my previous thread I aim to gain more confidence, get the dating game all figured out, and end my frustrations. My main assets are my looks and...
  18. darksprezzatura

    Opinion on a feminist/SJW [ADVICE]

    In my previous post I gave a field report on how I kiss closed an HB8 on the first date. Things progressed on the second date and I smashed her silly. I asked her about more personal things. Turns out she's a feminist/SJW. Her facebook is filled with political views, anti-rape sentiments...
  19. Fzatf

    Losing Wife

    A little backstory: I became ill and had to quit working and am on temporary disability. My wife and I switched roles and now I am the stay at home parent while she is working. I've been on medication that makes me very lethargic and haven't been my best for over 6 months now. My wife has had...
  20. B

    The 9 outta 10 that got away? Oh and I smashed my windshield....

    One day I was going to meet a friend on spring garden road, I was there first waiting for her and I saw this amazing girl at least a 9 out of 10. I started to talk to her and we talked for about 2 minutes and then suggested we sit down. After I had her sitting down it was very easy to talk to...
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