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Hey guys. It's me. The Balalaika Man. I'm new here and stuff. I'll try to avoid using the word 'I' too much, without writing out my whole life story too. But there are a few things about me that need to be said. Well first off, turned 18 about six months back. Studying mechanical engineering...

I met a girl about a month ago at a nightclub. We made out on the dancefloor for ages. I went and got some food with her after the club closed. She said how she loves how mature I am and enjoys talking to me too. Couldn't get her back to my place since her friend was sick and she needed to take...

There’s this girl in my college, we have two classes together. I have notice we tend to glance at each other she is shy but does talk when I ask her questions etc. When we talk is a decent conversation then it goes dry and it ends up with an awkward silence. We been seeing each other at campus...

Hello, First of all my name is Jack and I'm thankful that you've taken the time to read this. I'll get straight into it. I'm 21. And in May my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Unfortunately, due to feminized conditioning through being raised by a single mother, I latched on to the...

Girls asked me if i think she is ugly because I didn’t validate the pic she sent. Me: I never said that. You got more pictures of you? Her: You making it seem like is ugly *sends pic in a bikini* Me: no response yet. I think is a trap.... Old me would have probably told her something very...

So I have been out with this girls and everytime I tried to kiss her she says “you have to earn that” I thought it was her playing hard to get but she invites me to her apt and it was raining so I had to spend the night and she tells me to get in bed with her, but I didn’t try anything sexual...

I recently started my new job at this large accounting firm and really want to be on good terms with my boss. I heard from a lot of my office buddies that she can be really demanding and will usually assign a lot of overtime hours for employees that work hard. Since my wife just gave birth to...

I have a Korean girlfriend whom I met in an international dating blog. I got problems with her in terms of being romantic. Don’t get me wrong; I love her. I like the way she is. I like it when she’s being sweet to me. It’s just that she’s too much. She is into couple shirts, couple rings, couple...

I tried my luck by reaching myself out in a personals column and to no surprise, I haven’t gotten any responses. Although, the only person who contacted me was a “top foreign dating coach” and he offered his services to me at a fair price. He asked me if i needed help with finding love whether...

My girlfriend is a Ukrainian. I have heard a lot of negative hearsays about Ukraine women. They said these women are difficult to deal with. People say Ukraine women have higher anger quotient (A.Q) than other women. I guess I proved it just now. When my girlfriend and I were just dating for...

I am currently living in a Latin American country, somewhere in the northern part. Everything seems fine at first. Not until my fiance broke up with me did I realize that I was totally shattered into pieces. She was there through my tough times, but when she left, I don’t know where to run to...

I don’t want to get into details but I just want to ask for recommendations. Does anyone know any good international dating blogs for interracial couples? LGBTQ ones will also help me out. Thanks in advance.

I met this girl a week ago, she is my age (17). Before anything, her bestfriend is a close friend of mine, so he helps me with getting closer to her. We sat at a cafe, got to know eachother, went great. We had like one proper date and we spent it at a cafe as well. It was not bad, we like...

This coming weekend, my best friends and I are meeting up with a couple of Thai ladies for a getaway trip. We have met some of these girls months ago when we visited Phuket and ever since then, I have been in constant communication with one of these girls. It looks like her and I are getting...

It’s been two months since my ex-girlfriend and I broke up. It got hard for us to keep up a foreign relationship. We exchanged few words via text message starting on the third week of our first month apart. I didn’t give it much thought back then because it never went beyond three messages...

I’m currently debating with myself right now if I should offer to pay for my fiancee’s parents’ trip or not. They’re flying in to meet my parents and will be staying until our wedding day. My girlfriend and I met through an international brides dating agency. Probably not the most romantic for...

Two years have passed and I’m still in love with my ex-wife. We’re divorced and two of our three kids are with her. We decided to separate ways when we thought we’re still young and immature to be tied in marriage. We often see each other, no bitterness involve. Sometimes, I go to her place to...

She is my ideal woman, but not this time. I’m not ready for commitment yet. I am grateful for her, for loving me even if I didn’t take her seriously. But there’s a problem, I told her I love her. And she believed it. But I lied. What should I do? Should I tell her I was just lying at that time...

It has been years since my involvement with relationships. After my last breakup, I decided not to date and pay zero attention with girls who were so honest with their feelings toward me. The woman who broke my heart left a very big scar to me, which I considered to be the biggest reason why...

Just three months ago, my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. The news was so heartbreaking. She has been my light since our first meeting in that foreign date live two years ago. Our doctor has already scheduled her chemotherapy. I hope this will help her. Since the breakout of the news, her...