“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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  1. F

    100% seriously: should I give up?

    So, folks, I have been trying to learn/do game/pickup for one entire year now. During this time, I have both watched at least half-an-hour’s worth of instructional videos every single day, totalling hundreds of hours of study by now, and approached between 3 – 15 women every single day...
  2. L

    Confession: I think I messed up my life

    Sorry this one will be long. Hello, I am: 23, 170cm, 70kg. Athletic. I have been working with a US company as a freelancer for months (7-8), and slowly and gradually I came upon the current pay where if I were to work 10 hours every day for a few months, I might just get my own house. Since I...
  3. F

    Have been doing cold approach street game for months. Am getting very little results. Soliciting feedback on routine.

    Hi everyone. I'm a newcomer here. This is my first post. I originally tried posting this on r/seduction, but I received little actionable advice, so I thought I'd try posting it here instead. I’ve been doing day game for a little over five months now (I’m not into nightlife and thus night game...
  4. S

    Girls ignoring me?

    Hey guys, why after a few messages back-and-forth on ig girls ghost me? Firstly, they respond quickly with a bunch of messages at once, and then it's end. I'm firstly finding a match on dating app, then I ask a girl about her ig to move away from dating apps ASAP. Am I doing something wrong...
  5. B

    Advice on a situation I'm probably overthinking

    Looking to get some opinions/reassurance here. Went on a first date Friday night and we hit it off. It was getting very hot and heavy but she had to leave for work, which was mentioned before the date was arranged. I was with her right until she started work including when she changed to her...
  6. AntoniousIV

    Is this post authentic? (warning, longer read)

    OP - So I met this girl on campus. Was waiting with a bunch of friends to go climbing with the climbing club, and saw her walking past: blonde, tan, long legs in tight shorts. Damn, better get me a girl like that, I thought. Well she walks over to us. She’s here to try out climbing. Nice...
  7. L

    How do you handle politics with respect to women?

    Hello, I have been staying away from the site and practising everything I learned, and enjoying life in general. This topic still leaves me in confusion, so here is how it is. TLDR: How do you handle politics in respect to women? Do you discuss with them? Do you correct them? What if they are...
  8. L

    Where did I went wrong?

    Hello, I am 19 and new to this platform. In fact, any dating platform Recently, I have been reading The Rationale Male, and from there, I read about SoSuave, so I decided to check it out. This post will be long since I do not know how to write a short summary, so if you can bear with me, point...
  9. M

    Frustration

    I'm making this thread for a personal outlet. I have never had an easy life, my father died when I was 10, my mother abandoned me when I was 14 and luckily I was adopted by my paternal grandparents, my grandmother died in 2018 and I currently live with my grandfather, I am now 32 and a few...
  10. CollegeMan22

    Personal Game Bible

    I have some second hand advice to relay to you guys. One Game author who I read recommended to create a document (on your computer or physically) of all of the game strategies and tactics that have been successful for you (or that you have read about). I have done this for the past 1.5 years...
  11. M

    Laziness

    Are you lazy with women? If I think about my life I certainly could have had many more relationships, but I'm very lazy, I've never had very long relationships and consequently I've gotten used to being fine alone. I kind of envy some people I know because they're always on point like they...
  12. CollegeMan22

    A Review of the Basics

    I see a lot of useless bickering on here about the state of women in general. Women might not be up to the caliber they once were, and they probably have higher standards. Okay. Well guess what? That’s the game now. That’s the premise of approaching women. It is best to accept reality as...
  13. B

    Dating/plate exhaustion

    For people who have been plate spinning for a while, do you get exhausted from it? Im very introverted and have been spinning a few plates the past couple months and just feel super drained and now just want heaps of time to myself. I tend to withdraw socially when I feel like this and...
  14. B

    No sex yet after 5 dates

    This follows a post I made a few weeks ago: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/advice-after-second-date.277333/ So I've been continuing to see her and we've been making out but when I try escalate further she gets awkward and doesn't seem to want to take it further. I think she's the slow...
  15. B

    Advice after second date

    First time poster. Recently discovered the Rational Male and Rollo's content has really resonated with me. After living the oneitis life I've recently begun plate spinning and changing my mindset is working wonders for me. Anyway the reason for this post is to get opinions/confirm my...
  16. A

    Advice on female (or male) tenant in my home

    Hello everyone! New here. I’d love to hear your opinions on my thoughts regarding my search for a new tenant in my spare bedroom. For context, I’m a ~30 year old single male earning decent money, great physique (<12% body fat, 6 pack, gym 6x a week). I’m at a very happy place in my life -...
  17. T

    Are Male Friends Worth It?

    Hello Sosuave members, I came here looking for insight into your individual lives to compare and contrast the value of having male friends. I'm currently 20 Years old, I will be turning 21 next week. In my life, I mainly had negative experiences with multiple male social groups. I came across...
  18. A

    Where to now (asking for advice)

    Being new to this forum but having read some books about dating at 24 ayears of age, I can confidently say that my dating life has been good in the past. I'm now 31 years of age and 5.67 and weigh 138 lbs and I live in a very small country with not many people but a lot of foreigners. In the...
  19. Sir Ike

    A hungry for knowledge high-schooler searching for advice

    Hi! I'm from Colombia and I've been reading about the seduction community and a few books but I thought asking for advice wouldn't hurt me. I have read The Game, The Mystery Method and currently reading The Rational Male, but I think that the techniques that are taught in the first two books...
  20. Firecrotch66

    Advice for whoever finds it useful

    Back in Sept 2019 I was trying to hit 69 women before New Years because I thought being able to sleep with 69 and say I did was hilarious. I hit 45 before Covid ended life as we know it. Some of my sex knowledge comes from high school because I started young and hung out with a hedonist crowd...
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