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Hey guys, Had a first date tonight. Went out salsa dancing with a new Dominican chick I am talking to. I am REALLY into her - hot and a thick body, nice curves. We vibed and were making out during the date, etc. I invite her back to my place for a drink at the end - she gladly accepts. We...

Funny observation I have noticed with the past 3 new girls I have bucked. Every single one of these girls has a photo of themselves as their phone background on their lock screen. The photos are usually ones on their Instagram/OLD profiles. Usually a high-quality, photoshoot-esque one. Not...

What's up boys. Recently I met this Brazilian chick (HB 8). So far we have gone on three dates. First date was drinks and an app at a local spot. Plenty of kino, and by the end of the first date I was holding her hand while I walked to her to car and made out before saying goodbye. Second...

What's up guys. Just started a part-time gig as a Strength and Conditioning Coach in a local privately-owned gym. I am there 2 week nights for a few hours and Saturday mornings for a few as well. Over the past 3 weeks this one client has caught my attention and I have been getting some IOIs...

What's up guys. I went out with a Brazilian chick tonight. Real cutie. HB8 IMO. We got a drink and an app at a place close to my apartment. The conversation was great, plenty of kino, and we ended up making out at the end of the night after I walked her to her car. She seemed really into me...

If you guys have been keeping up with my posts this week you know that this has probably been my single worst week of first date ever since getting divorced and red pilled. Tonight was finally a great night with a girl I was looking forward to meeting. We got drinks at a local spot and had...

This just isn't my week with the ladies, guys. I know I'll get some heat from the beta-ness of my actions tonight, but I don't care. I enjoy posting my mishaps and mistakes and having you guys critique me. It has helped me tremendously in the past. So here we go. Went on a date with a...

What's up fellas. I have some owning up to do on what I believe was quite possibly the worst performance I have had on a first date so far. Started talking to this Brazilian chick on hinge about a week ago. She gave me her number and told me to text her if I wanted. We planned on her coming...

What's up boys. Wondering if anyone has ever gone to a club or bar solo with the intention of picking up a woman? There is a smaller dance club 2 miles from my apartment that does Spanish dance music on Saturday nights. Last weekend I went with a plate and had a great time, but I was looking...

Hey guys, Some of you know I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now. She is amazing. Cooks for me, cleans, intelligent, self-less, will come over and fuuck/blow me on command whenever I want, has a great sex drive, submissive, etc. So what's the problem? Other women. I know I have...

What's up guys. I've known this girl for 2 months now (just started dating about 3 weeks ago) and as some of you have seen my from previous posts I felt really confident I wanted to be exclusive with this girl (and still do). But here is a text I got from her today. What are your thoughts? I...

Lots of thanks to everyone here. I have truly changed as a person in the past (almost) year. My friend recommended TRM to me back in Late Aug/September 2020 when I started my divorce and I thought, "why not? I have no other philosophies or direction right now regarding women, and clearly I...

Hey guys. Been divorced now for 9 months now and I have been successfully spinning plates and having fun meeting new women and utilizing the knowledge I have learned here on SS. Recently I have been talking to this girl for about 2 months and I definitely could see myself becoming exclusive...

What's up guys. 8 months post separation. I've had a small sample size of girls (bucked 13 so far and been on 20+ first dates) to determine what I want/don't want in a women to avoid the mistake of my marriage. I've also taken a lot of time to reflect and better myself in a lot of aspects...

Matched with an HB8 on the apps 2 days ago. She messages me saying "you had me with that picture (references one of my photos). Also, my instagram is ____." I don't add her on instagram (not trying to orbit) and cont. to proceed with small talk. Before I ask, she ends up offering her number...

What's up guys. Had a great time tonight with this Brazilian girl on our first date. We met at a bar in her town and ended up being there for a few hours talking. Conversation was great, she was a sweet girl, and fun to be around. She and I both initiated kino throughout the night and she...

Hey guys. I have 2 plates I am becoming close with, but I am still not interested in a LTR at this time. What is everyone's default answer to this inevitable question if you don't want a LTR but you want to keep seeing that girl? I know it needs to be done covertly and indirectly.

What's up guys. My original post about this chick is here for reference: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/do-i-give-her-a-4th-date.269038/ Anyways, to leave off from that post. She came over for the 4th date Monday night. This time, since my strategy of escalating things on my couch...

What's up guys. Tonight I had a third date with this chick I'm seeing. First date we met at a local coffee shop and made out at the end of the date. Second date she came to my place and I cooked dinner and she brought wine. We escalated and were making out on the couch, but after sucking on...

Just found out today that the first plate I ever spun since getting divorced is now in a relationship (hadn't spoken to her in a while since last time I reached out she was "too busy" to meet up.) When I texted her today she replied that she had a new phone and didn't have any of her contacts...