You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
thanks man. Appreciate that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I do hate it when people won't get to the point. Very aggravating. They might also do it to fill out their video, so they get more minutes viewed. Reminds me of a lot of PUA material I've read. They'll fill a whole chapter with babble just to make one point. Drives me crazy. You could write most PUA books on one page if you just cut to the chase. But then they wouldn't have a book to sell.
oh yeah. But it’s worse than just babble /filler.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was just thinking “ did he post up the wrong scene? I don’t see any EC!” Haha.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
links for videos ?!Update!
so this has turned into an online journal now as I cbf with cold approaching. There’s too much time wasting just looking for chicks who are decent looking and also happen to be solo to approach. At least in my area.
So pausing for now and back on apps 2-3 weeks now.
already have 3 possible dates this week, w 1 sexy girl and 2 more average looking girls.
May meet the sexy one tmrw night in the city for a drink at a cool bar. And she lives in the city so the logistics are there for a pull to hers.
also importantly, recently ive been watching these BP “Chad fishing “ and “staciefishing” experiment videos.
guys if you are reading this :
Watch these videos! - they are really informative and ought to make you think about the nature of app game and your sticking points!
I’ve switched up some things and can see the benefits already. Very good stuff!
that is all for this check in of CJs amazing journal.
this is one I watched recently the ChadFish
and did not go for a make out, YUM YUM!!! Hard to know sometimes .. perhaps she’s disappointed she didn’t laid tonite .. meh. I thought best not tho as she’s quite nice and would be good to her a few times and have some fancy dates in the city, ….i shall see if she was turned on by it all or nah..don’t have her number so it’ll be a yay or nay on the app soon .You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
