"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What happened?

GoodOne123

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Last night I went to the club again.

Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl.

The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty.

As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with eachother, the guys in her group try to get her off me, or get in her ear to talk to her.

She was quite discreet with displaying her signs of interest with me. Like she grabbed my bum at an angle where none of the guys saw it. And she was quite reluctant to kiss me in front of them, even though a typical girl I would find in the club would go right ahead.

This is where I suspected she had a boyfriend.

I asked a couple of the guys. One said yes another said no. But a third guy came up to me and said that she has a boyfriend and that I shouldn't be offended because there is nothing wrong with me.

This is where I though that she most likely has a boyfriend. Even if she doesn't, the guys in her group would ****block me all night.

At this point, I saw the guys guiding her away from me, so I left the group completely and looked for other girls.

Guys was there any way to get with this girl in this situation? What would you have done?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spaz

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
 

wifehunter

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
I know right? Guys have no lives, these days.o_O Oh well, I guess I'll just have to enjoy having zero competition.:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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