"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What happened?

GoodOne123

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Last night I went to the club again.

Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl.

The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty.

As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with eachother, the guys in her group try to get her off me, or get in her ear to talk to her.

She was quite discreet with displaying her signs of interest with me. Like she grabbed my bum at an angle where none of the guys saw it. And she was quite reluctant to kiss me in front of them, even though a typical girl I would find in the club would go right ahead.

This is where I suspected she had a boyfriend.

I asked a couple of the guys. One said yes another said no. But a third guy came up to me and said that she has a boyfriend and that I shouldn't be offended because there is nothing wrong with me.

This is where I though that she most likely has a boyfriend. Even if she doesn't, the guys in her group would ****block me all night.

At this point, I saw the guys guiding her away from me, so I left the group completely and looked for other girls.

Guys was there any way to get with this girl in this situation? What would you have done?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spaz

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
 

wifehunter

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I wouldn't waste time on her.

Guys orbiting 1 girl? Lol
I know right? Guys have no lives, these days.o_O Oh well, I guess I'll just have to enjoy having zero competition.:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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