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  1. B

    If you get her number at the club she won't remember you the next day!

    The truth is getting a girls in the number in the club means nothing in 2021. I have been preaching for donkey’s years that the club is a terrible place to meet women! Yes people do meet women in the club but even a broken clock is right twice a day. In the club you are up against so many...
  2. GoodOne123

    What happened?

    Last night I went to the club again. Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl. The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty. As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with...
  3. GoodOne123

    Did I do the right thing?

    Basically I met a girl 2 weeks ago at a club. I fingered her and got her number. We slept with eachother a few days later when we met in the club again. It was Valentine's day recently. I didn't text her or take her out or anything. I didnt see the point since we aren't close like that. Now...
  4. GoodOne123

    How do I treat a girl like this?

    Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor. No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d. I got her number before her friend dragged her away. I played it cool and texted her saying I hope...
  5. GoodOne123

    Messed with a girl who is a friend

    I have a girl who is a friend. We mainly were party buddies, and I was happy to keep her around because I got invited to some cool parties. I never saw her as a potential plate or gf, just because she always had a bf. She recently broke up with him though, and is messing around with other...
  6. GoodOne123

    I Wish I Started Earlier

    Recently I went out. This was a club that caters more to college students. I recently turned 24 so I was a bit older than lots of the girls there. But I do look younger, like 20-21. I had a good time. One girl started undressing me in the middle of the club, and feeling me up. A second...
  7. GoodOne123

    This girl is confusing

    So I go out to club again. I see this good looking girl standing alone as she looks and smiles at me. I'm step over. I am blunt and frank, and say that shes my type and I'd like to kiss her. She says that her friends are leaving and must go. She points to her friends all walking out the...
  8. GoodOne123

    This blows my mind

    I meet a girl at a house party. She asks about me on the night. Gives me compliments. Isolates me from the group and smokes a cigarette with me. I escalate, she invites me over to hers. She says she really wants to sleep with me but she is on her period so she can't sleep with me...
  9. GoodOne123

    What's going on?

    I was on a roll recently. I was pulling 1 or 2 girls a night at the club every week. This was going on for a month straight. But I just went out this weekend to the club, and didn't pull anything! I only got two dances though. Both girls were dragged away from me by their friends. I'm so...
  10. B

    Field Report - Bar Crawling

    I won't be engaging trolls. Trying not to get banned. Update from last field report: fvcked five different chicks from a total of like 15-20 numbers. Haven't fvcked anything today because I dont want to be sedated. Going out tonight as per the usual. A guy I hit the scene with last week has...
  11. GoodOne123

    Almost got into a fight

    I was in the club recently. Happened to see a girl check me out. I step over to her. We dance and make out, no big deal. But at some point when we were together, a group of about 6 guys, all looking around 6 ft 2 and 200 lbs, circled us as some type of joke. They were squeezing us in their...
  12. E

    How to be lone wolf

    I am 33 and most of my friends are married with children. Because of that they do not go to clubs. They go to pubs but very rarely. I do not see any choice but to become lone wolf. Yet I am very embarassed by the situation. I was few time in the club alone but wen't home without talking to...
  13. pyros

    clingy 19 years old

    I met this 19 years old almost one week ago in a latin club. I am 29. I noticed she was staring at me ...several times, so I asked her to dance. After that I talked to her for like 10 minutes, got her number, etc. Two days later she texted me, we talked, and she asked me if I minded her age...
  14. pyros

    when they like you its easy

    last night I was in a latin club with some of my friends. After a while I was walking around on my own and then I saw this pretty cute girl. I walked past her and she looked at me and kept looking. Then I stopped 2 meters away from her; the place was crowded. I looked at her again and she looked...