"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ways youve asked a girl out

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post some ways youve asked a girl out

one of mine..

we were bowling and while it was her turn i changed her name to "will you go out with me" and ya
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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dude156 said:
we were bowling and while it was her turn i changed her name to "will you go out with me" and ya
Good for the humor factor, bad because you leave things totally in her court. You're not asking her to marry you, you're letting her go on a date with you. Don't ask, tell, hey you should go out with me. Although what you did worked fine for the situation, if you were to actually say that out loud it wouldn't be as powerful as saying "Hey, lets go out"

I'm not terribly creative, most of the girls I ask out I just stick to the basics "Hey lets get some coffee" etc
 

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Just a couple, only one not on the phone.

Me(high as a kite): Ey watcha reading there?
Her: [some generic book], why you read?
Me: believe it or not I do, [odd comments about the auther]
her: [laughing] , I'm surpised you never struck me as the litrery type.
Me: yea and I'm straight too, hey lets try out the new cofee flavour at [some eatery].
Her: Ok.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't worry about the wording. Do you think about it when you ask a buddy to do something with you? Just ask.
 

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how about just saying
baby, you look good, now let's go out and **** afterwards

well something like that lol, you can obviously think about half that sentence
 

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Or, my personal favorite..

*call her, yak at her while simitatously going to her house about random crap*
"Ohh...by the way, I'll be there to pick you up in 5 minutes!"

:D
 

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I did this before...

I wrote a note saying...

"will U B my soulm8?

[ ] Yes
[ ] No

check 1 of dem."

I spelled a few words wrong... and with a few letters written backwards... but it works wonders.

You MUST try!
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've got a few creative ones that I've used.

1.Over a game of hang man. It was a yes.

2. Went to the mall early, went to the greeting card store, picked out a congratulations card. Wrote a little note, asked her out in it. Told the clerk to hold on to it for me, gave her some instructions. Later on, brought the girl in there, told her to go ask teh clerk for something, and the clerk gave her the card. It was a yes.

3. ANother card, invited the girl to my house. Put a folded piece of paper in the air hockey table, so when I scored she'd have to reach for it. She ignored the paper so I had to hand it to her. It said
"Bad News: You just got scored on.
Good news: Look under the table."
Underneath the table I taped the card, asking her out. It was a yes.

4. Same girl as #3. Just burnt a CD, some sweet songs, some funny songs (Hot Stuff - Donna Summers, got a good laugh) and the last song was DJ Otzi's version of Hey Baby (Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy heyy baby, i wanna knooooooow, would you be my girl) and played it. As soon as she listened to it she smiled, and said yes.


I pride myself on being creative, even though #4 was kind of lazy.
 
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lol these are actually really good ideas gotta try a few

i asked some girl out a couple days ago (family trip so she couldnt but she did txt me till her battery ran out)

i just said " Hey movies on saturday sound good? just me and u wateva movie u wanna see"

she said "Trip, going to beach w/ maggie and my family soz"

and i said "ok well next time?"

she said "ofcource"
 

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i like the game over hang man by Skilla_Staz and the note by Michele,l'Arcangelo =D
 

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What you guys don't realize is that he meant asking them to be his girlfriend

A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
What you guys don't realize is that he meant asking them to be his girlfriend

A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
heh ya that was that meant but i clarified
its all good
but ya i dont just want to bluntly say...so will you go out with me. thats boring and they seem to like clever ways to ask them rather than boring
but my idea is to, well micheles' is to write a note like he said but put liek all yes answers such as:

will you go out with me bla bla bla

[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] ew yes!

or somthing along that line
im gonna probably to this tomorow in class:D
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she wants you she will bring the "couple" topic ;)
 

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sucess.. i did it today

i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!

but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put

dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D

so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next
 

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haha a good one i did was a lil corney but got some laughs i asked this chick if she wanted to go get something to eat she said idk are you askin me on a date and i was like no i just feel like eatin someone good and your gunna buy me dinner haha we acually didnt even go eat nowhere but it worked pretty good
 
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dude156 said:
sucess.. i did it today

i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!

but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put

dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D

so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next

florida rocks!!! i should noe! i mean i been here since B!TCHES!!!!!
 
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