"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
ways youve asked a girl out
- Thread starter dude156
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kev07
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HEY COME WITH ME!
where?
duh to junior prom =]
oooook
Good for the humor factor, bad because you leave things totally in her court. You're not asking her to marry you, you're letting her go on a date with you. Don't ask, tell, hey you should go out with me. Although what you did worked fine for the situation, if you were to actually say that out loud it wouldn't be as powerful as saying "Hey, lets go out"dude156 said:
I'm not terribly creative, most of the girls I ask out I just stick to the basics "Hey lets get some coffee" etc
Me(high as a kite): Ey watcha reading there?
Her: [some generic book], why you read?
Me: believe it or not I do, [odd comments about the auther]
her: [laughing] , I'm surpised you never struck me as the litrery type.
Me: yea and I'm straight too, hey lets try out the new cofee flavour at [some eatery].
Her: Ok.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
baby, you look good, now let's go out and **** afterwards
well something like that lol, you can obviously think about half that sentence
Docs
Banned
*call her, yak at her while simitatously going to her house about random crap*
"Ohh...by the way, I'll be there to pick you up in 5 minutes!"
Michele l'Arcangelo
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I wrote a note saying...
"will U B my soulm8?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
check 1 of dem."
I spelled a few words wrong... and with a few letters written backwards... but it works wonders.
You MUST try!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
1.Over a game of hang man. It was a yes.
2. Went to the mall early, went to the greeting card store, picked out a congratulations card. Wrote a little note, asked her out in it. Told the clerk to hold on to it for me, gave her some instructions. Later on, brought the girl in there, told her to go ask teh clerk for something, and the clerk gave her the card. It was a yes.
3. ANother card, invited the girl to my house. Put a folded piece of paper in the air hockey table, so when I scored she'd have to reach for it. She ignored the paper so I had to hand it to her. It said
"Bad News: You just got scored on.
Good news: Look under the table."
Underneath the table I taped the card, asking her out. It was a yes.
4. Same girl as #3. Just burnt a CD, some sweet songs, some funny songs (Hot Stuff - Donna Summers, got a good laugh) and the last song was DJ Otzi's version of Hey Baby (Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy heyy baby, i wanna knooooooow, would you be my girl) and played it. As soon as she listened to it she smiled, and said yes.
I pride myself on being creative, even though #4 was kind of lazy.
The Columbus Myth
Don Juan
i asked some girl out a couple days ago (family trip so she couldnt but she did txt me till her battery ran out)
i just said " Hey movies on saturday sound good? just me and u wateva movie u wanna see"
she said "Trip, going to beach w/ maggie and my family soz"
and i said "ok well next time?"
she said "ofcource"
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
heh ya that was that meant but i clarifiedCapt.Jack Sparrow said:
its all good
but ya i dont just want to bluntly say...so will you go out with me. thats boring and they seem to like clever ways to ask them rather than boring
but my idea is to, well micheles' is to write a note like he said but put liek all yes answers such as:
will you go out with me bla bla bla
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] ew yes!
or somthing along that line
im gonna probably to this tomorow in class
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!
but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put
dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D
so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next
The Columbus Myth
Don Juan
dude156 said:
florida rocks!!! i should noe! i mean i been here since B!TCHES!!!!!