"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ways youve asked a girl out
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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HEY COME WITH ME!
where?
duh to junior prom =]
oooook
Good for the humor factor, bad because you leave things totally in her court. You're not asking her to marry you, you're letting her go on a date with you. Don't ask, tell, hey you should go out with me. Although what you did worked fine for the situation, if you were to actually say that out loud it wouldn't be as powerful as saying "Hey, lets go out"dude156 said:
I'm not terribly creative, most of the girls I ask out I just stick to the basics "Hey lets get some coffee" etc
Me(high as a kite): Ey watcha reading there?
Her: [some generic book], why you read?
Me: believe it or not I do, [odd comments about the auther]
her: [laughing] , I'm surpised you never struck me as the litrery type.
Me: yea and I'm straight too, hey lets try out the new cofee flavour at [some eatery].
Her: Ok.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
baby, you look good, now let's go out and **** afterwards
well something like that lol, you can obviously think about half that sentence
Docs
Banned
*call her, yak at her while simitatously going to her house about random crap*
"Ohh...by the way, I'll be there to pick you up in 5 minutes!"
Michele l'Arcangelo
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I wrote a note saying...
"will U B my soulm8?
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
check 1 of dem."
I spelled a few words wrong... and with a few letters written backwards... but it works wonders.
You MUST try!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
1.Over a game of hang man. It was a yes.
2. Went to the mall early, went to the greeting card store, picked out a congratulations card. Wrote a little note, asked her out in it. Told the clerk to hold on to it for me, gave her some instructions. Later on, brought the girl in there, told her to go ask teh clerk for something, and the clerk gave her the card. It was a yes.
3. ANother card, invited the girl to my house. Put a folded piece of paper in the air hockey table, so when I scored she'd have to reach for it. She ignored the paper so I had to hand it to her. It said
"Bad News: You just got scored on.
Good news: Look under the table."
Underneath the table I taped the card, asking her out. It was a yes.
4. Same girl as #3. Just burnt a CD, some sweet songs, some funny songs (Hot Stuff - Donna Summers, got a good laugh) and the last song was DJ Otzi's version of Hey Baby (Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy heyy baby, i wanna knooooooow, would you be my girl) and played it. As soon as she listened to it she smiled, and said yes.
I pride myself on being creative, even though #4 was kind of lazy.
The Columbus Myth
Don Juan
i asked some girl out a couple days ago (family trip so she couldnt but she did txt me till her battery ran out)
i just said " Hey movies on saturday sound good? just me and u wateva movie u wanna see"
she said "Trip, going to beach w/ maggie and my family soz"
and i said "ok well next time?"
she said "ofcource"
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
heh ya that was that meant but i clarifiedCapt.Jack Sparrow said:
its all good
but ya i dont just want to bluntly say...so will you go out with me. thats boring and they seem to like clever ways to ask them rather than boring
but my idea is to, well micheles' is to write a note like he said but put liek all yes answers such as:
will you go out with me bla bla bla
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] ew yes!
or somthing along that line
im gonna probably to this tomorow in class
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!
but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put
dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D
so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next
The Columbus Myth
Don Juan
dude156 said:
florida rocks!!! i should noe! i mean i been here since B!TCHES!!!!!