"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ways youve asked a girl out

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post some ways youve asked a girl out

one of mine..

we were bowling and while it was her turn i changed her name to "will you go out with me" and ya
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude156 said:
we were bowling and while it was her turn i changed her name to "will you go out with me" and ya
Good for the humor factor, bad because you leave things totally in her court. You're not asking her to marry you, you're letting her go on a date with you. Don't ask, tell, hey you should go out with me. Although what you did worked fine for the situation, if you were to actually say that out loud it wouldn't be as powerful as saying "Hey, lets go out"

I'm not terribly creative, most of the girls I ask out I just stick to the basics "Hey lets get some coffee" etc
 

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Just a couple, only one not on the phone.

Me(high as a kite): Ey watcha reading there?
Her: [some generic book], why you read?
Me: believe it or not I do, [odd comments about the auther]
her: [laughing] , I'm surpised you never struck me as the litrery type.
Me: yea and I'm straight too, hey lets try out the new cofee flavour at [some eatery].
Her: Ok.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't worry about the wording. Do you think about it when you ask a buddy to do something with you? Just ask.
 

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how about just saying
baby, you look good, now let's go out and **** afterwards

well something like that lol, you can obviously think about half that sentence
 

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Or, my personal favorite..

*call her, yak at her while simitatously going to her house about random crap*
"Ohh...by the way, I'll be there to pick you up in 5 minutes!"

:D
 

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I did this before...

I wrote a note saying...

"will U B my soulm8?

[ ] Yes
[ ] No

check 1 of dem."

I spelled a few words wrong... and with a few letters written backwards... but it works wonders.

You MUST try!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've got a few creative ones that I've used.

1.Over a game of hang man. It was a yes.

2. Went to the mall early, went to the greeting card store, picked out a congratulations card. Wrote a little note, asked her out in it. Told the clerk to hold on to it for me, gave her some instructions. Later on, brought the girl in there, told her to go ask teh clerk for something, and the clerk gave her the card. It was a yes.

3. ANother card, invited the girl to my house. Put a folded piece of paper in the air hockey table, so when I scored she'd have to reach for it. She ignored the paper so I had to hand it to her. It said
"Bad News: You just got scored on.
Good news: Look under the table."
Underneath the table I taped the card, asking her out. It was a yes.

4. Same girl as #3. Just burnt a CD, some sweet songs, some funny songs (Hot Stuff - Donna Summers, got a good laugh) and the last song was DJ Otzi's version of Hey Baby (Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy heyy baby, i wanna knooooooow, would you be my girl) and played it. As soon as she listened to it she smiled, and said yes.


I pride myself on being creative, even though #4 was kind of lazy.
 
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lol these are actually really good ideas gotta try a few

i asked some girl out a couple days ago (family trip so she couldnt but she did txt me till her battery ran out)

i just said " Hey movies on saturday sound good? just me and u wateva movie u wanna see"

she said "Trip, going to beach w/ maggie and my family soz"

and i said "ok well next time?"

she said "ofcource"
 

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i like the game over hang man by Skilla_Staz and the note by Michele,l'Arcangelo =D
 

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What you guys don't realize is that he meant asking them to be his girlfriend

A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
 

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Capt.Jack Sparrow said:
What you guys don't realize is that he meant asking them to be his girlfriend

A simple "Will you be my girlfriend?" will do unless you want fancy kind of ****..
I feel weird if I were to say "will you go out with me?" and than she'd be like "where?"
lmao
heh ya that was that meant but i clarified
its all good
but ya i dont just want to bluntly say...so will you go out with me. thats boring and they seem to like clever ways to ask them rather than boring
but my idea is to, well micheles' is to write a note like he said but put liek all yes answers such as:

will you go out with me bla bla bla

[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] ew yes!

or somthing along that line
im gonna probably to this tomorow in class:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she wants you she will bring the "couple" topic ;)
 

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sucess.. i did it today

i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!

but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put

dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D

so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next
 

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haha a good one i did was a lil corney but got some laughs i asked this chick if she wanted to go get something to eat she said idk are you askin me on a date and i was like no i just feel like eatin someone good and your gunna buy me dinner haha we acually didnt even go eat nowhere but it worked pretty good
 
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dude156 said:
sucess.. i did it today

i wrote will you go out with me? (with some backwords letters) and then i put
[ ] yes!
[ ] no...just kidding yes!
[ ] hmmmm lemme think...yes!

but shes going to florida for 2 weeks so she put

dood! kay,i like you butttt wait until i come back from florida? pleeeeeez. then, im down =D

so ya. im not sure but her best friend said cuz got asked out and she has a bf now but hes in ny and she said shes lonely so maybe thats why she wants to wait? i dont have a problem just as long as she doesnt change her mind but if she does then oh well next

florida rocks!!! i should noe! i mean i been here since B!TCHES!!!!!
 
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