We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.That's the female from the AT&T commercials. She's gone into hiding in recent months...
Who dis?
People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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Jason Statham was in a relationship with Kelly Brook for about 7 years, starting when she was about 19yrs old. So he tapped them when they were at their perkiest. He was still bald then, but much less known and wealthy.Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!

She is, I literally just saw one like five seconds ago.People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.
Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.Katarra Parson.
Them titties stay looking succulent.
Classy, not trashy..and this is the type I'm looking for when I go hunting.
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Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.
B!tch is huge.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.
Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
An 8 is a bunker buster? I consider 8 to be elite. She is beautiful.Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..
I mean sure, we can all look at what others consider a "10" and offer our own commentary.Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
Well, based on her music and wardrobe (from vids and pics), her style is within the range of "Neo-soul", which is also something I tend to like (Lauryn Hill, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, India Arie).She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.B!tch is huge.
To each his own.I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
if she didnt have makeup would she still be a 10?This is the closest I've seen to a 10 in a good while
She is not too skinny and not too fat. Keeping that perfect middle zone will be difficult as she ages though. I can see why you say she was a ten. If she was latina, north african or turkish I would say perfect 10 lolol.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.