We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.That's the female from the AT&T commercials. She's gone into hiding in recent months...
Who dis?
People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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Jason Statham was in a relationship with Kelly Brook for about 7 years, starting when she was about 19yrs old. So he tapped them when they were at their perkiest. He was still bald then, but much less known and wealthy.Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!

She is, I literally just saw one like five seconds ago.People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.
Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.Katarra Parson.
Them titties stay looking succulent.
Classy, not trashy..and this is the type I'm looking for when I go hunting.
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Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.
B!tch is huge.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.
Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
An 8 is a bunker buster? I consider 8 to be elite. She is beautiful.Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..
I mean sure, we can all look at what others consider a "10" and offer our own commentary.Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
Well, based on her music and wardrobe (from vids and pics), her style is within the range of "Neo-soul", which is also something I tend to like (Lauryn Hill, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, India Arie).She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.B!tch is huge.
To each his own.I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
if she didnt have makeup would she still be a 10?This is the closest I've seen to a 10 in a good while
She is not too skinny and not too fat. Keeping that perfect middle zone will be difficult as she ages though. I can see why you say she was a ten. If she was latina, north african or turkish I would say perfect 10 lolol.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.