We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.That's the female from the AT&T commercials. She's gone into hiding in recent months...
Who dis?
People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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Jason Statham was in a relationship with Kelly Brook for about 7 years, starting when she was about 19yrs old. So he tapped them when they were at their perkiest. He was still bald then, but much less known and wealthy.Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!

She is, I literally just saw one like five seconds ago.People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.
Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.Katarra Parson.
Them titties stay looking succulent.
Classy, not trashy..and this is the type I'm looking for when I go hunting.
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Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.
B!tch is huge.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.
Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
An 8 is a bunker buster? I consider 8 to be elite. She is beautiful.Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..
I mean sure, we can all look at what others consider a "10" and offer our own commentary.Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
Well, based on her music and wardrobe (from vids and pics), her style is within the range of "Neo-soul", which is also something I tend to like (Lauryn Hill, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, India Arie).She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.B!tch is huge.
To each his own.I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
if she didnt have makeup would she still be a 10?This is the closest I've seen to a 10 in a good while
She is not too skinny and not too fat. Keeping that perfect middle zone will be difficult as she ages though. I can see why you say she was a ten. If she was latina, north african or turkish I would say perfect 10 lolol.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.